"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pheromones

Bible_Belt

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Have you ever had a woman whose smell turned you on after not showering for a day or two? Especially on the back of her neck or her hair? I have experienced that with several girls. I think it is because of the pheromones they give off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes and it is def the difference a woman's odour has, due to her pheromones. Although if she doesn't shower longer than a few days, the, erm, odour can become unpleasant!
 

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Humans dont t have pheromones. At least not like animals. What you're smelling is basically a mixture of her sweat and skin(and other artficial chemicals from shampoo or whatever) , your brain associates this smell with her (which you find attractive) and the smell will be registered as attractive...

The olfactory system is very well connected with special type of memory which registeres "atmospheres" and locations.

How do you find your ex's smell, or someone you hate?
 

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Humans dont t have pheromones. At least not like animals. What you're smelling is basically a mixture of her sweat and skin(and other artficial chemicals from shampoo or whatever) , your brain associates this smell with her (which you find attractive) and the smell will be registered as attractive...

The olfactory system is very well connected with special type of memory which registeres "atmospheres" and locations.

How do you find your ex's smell, or someone you hate?
its been debated, but we do have them but we do not possess strong enough olfactory senses to actually detect them.
 
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