"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
phermones
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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gimmeyofonenumba
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everywomanshero
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but I think we can safely rule out the use of pig pheromone colognes, subliminal messages, and mystic chants. If there was even the slighest risk these might work you'd see commercials, ads, and religious nutcases trying to ban it everytime you turned on your television.
There is no magic bullet for controlling interactions with women. I don't know if there ever will be, and neither does anyone else, but I do know there is no such method known to man thus far. Such a secret is worth billions of dollars and would be shoved in our faces a million times a day if it existed.
The only person you can control or induce hypnosis for that will make any difference in your interactions with women is yourself.
Just my opinion, I could be wrong but I truly doubt it this time.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
As long as I drink water and eat salt my body releases pheremones that are specific to my person, the more you produce the more a girl knows that you are a man(in fact and in as of yet unproven theory)
A good cologne, fruit, and plant essences are basically the only other smells that are useful in a pickup that a woman will be attracted to...
I myself have a fetish with any girl who's been out in the bush for a few weeks and has only washed in the ocean with a bar of soap instead of in the shower with full set of shampoo scrubbything scented oils sprays and all that junk. It's that combination of burnt wood, pine/muskeg, fish/mataaq.
Other "pheremones" I know of are butt picked fingers, I've inadvertantly scratched my ass cause it was itchy(I had taken a dump recently and my ass was sweating) when I put my hands up to the girls face... she sniffed my finger HARD and than SUCKED on it, back than it turned me on. Now it disgusts me, I've seen the fetish pics.
Smell is powerful if its all you have to work on including your looks, otherwise humans have evolved towards mental processes being stimulated, not simply straight forwardly titillated