"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PHD IN BPD

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They are out there. Bpd's on the prowl just looking for attention and willing to give up their bodies for validation. I'm working on being able to spot them, confirm by recognizing the red flags, stay detached to what ever bs she's taking about, and hit it then quit it.

Once you've been evolved with one, you know they're out having sex with someone minutes after they say they love you.

Many are hypersexual, insist on using condoms especially if she claims to have recently been tested, or she's got a birth control device inserted.

If you're at the club or at the bar look for smokers. "If she smokes she pokes " is a solid indicator. Look at the way she interacts with others. Spot attention seeking behaviours. Adjusting her braw, playing with her hair, dropping keys etc. to bend over.

Notice alcohol consommation . Usually not a lightweight. Spark up a conversation, and if she tries to garner sympathy by being victimized by life, then you got an easy lay.

Trick is not to ever see them again. Be discrete. Go to her place or rent an hotel room and never bring them to your place. Protect your identity and you'll be getting laid every week.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I find that being discrete, mysterious, hiding personal things like identity ect. and just going in with the intention that you don't want them to know a lot about you attracts BPD like crazy. They become obsessed.

At least that's how my ex was.
 

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Many are hypersexual, insist on using condoms especially if she claims to have recently been tested, or she's got a birth control device inserted.
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