I was about 15 min ago sitting with a decent Columbian chick in her place smokin out and watching the 40 yr old virgin. Which I by the way think has some lesson anyone like me should take heart. Anyway this chick proceeds to tell me after the movie that she wants a booty call. I at once think to myself, "why not me" but I choke. My heart stars pounding and i shut the **** up. I then made idle bull**** for a while and later said I had to sleep because of work tommorrow. Now I am at home and I've realized that I am a *****. She gave me all the signs, I saw them and did **** about it. But no more. This is my one and only rant. I thank everyone on the net for helping me grow up. Peace.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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