"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Phase Shift...

noone000

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I was about 15 min ago sitting with a decent Columbian chick in her place smokin out and watching the 40 yr old virgin. Which I by the way think has some lesson anyone like me should take heart. Anyway this chick proceeds to tell me after the movie that she wants a booty call. I at once think to myself, "why not me" but I choke. My heart stars pounding and i shut the **** up. I then made idle bull**** for a while and later said I had to sleep because of work tommorrow. Now I am at home and I've realized that I am a *****. She gave me all the signs, I saw them and did **** about it. But no more. This is my one and only rant. I thank everyone on the net for helping me grow up. Peace.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eccentric

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In a funny tone "quick, whats your phone #"
 

tmpgstx

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I've been in this type of situation (but not smoking) and every time just started giving her the old back rub and then kissing her. Next thing you know, we're on her bed with her underwear coming off. I'm thinking to myself "dam, couldn't even really tell if she liked me or not, and now she's spreading her legs for me with no hesitation what so ever!).

It's all good, but each time i just assumed the girl would and she did (lucky for me).
 
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