"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phantom Phonecall.....

Craig_87

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Well guys.....im still goin after this girl, I think its a game of cat and mouse....and i certainly aint the mouse.....anyway.....

Got a call off this girl at 2:40 in the mornin...I was in bed as had lectures at 9....so i was fast asleep......got woken up, had a missed call....and it was from her.

Thats the first time any of us have tried ringing, its usually by text, IM or just on a night out. Anyway, didnt ring back or anything.....she was online a few moments and i asked her if she knew who'd call me at such a time....

after a while she confessed, but said she had no idea why she did it.....i asked if she was drunk, to which I got Yes....then that was it.....just went offline...almost as if she was ignorin me....

reckon this is just another of her crazy tests ?????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bvbidd

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Last time I got a call at that time, she was drunk and wanted me to fvck her badly. It's just a booty call.
 

hbxdoode

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damn you're one stupid fvck!!! you like this girl and obviously trying to persue her, and she calls you at 230 in the morning and you dont call back? you could hit that for sure!!! she's obviously thinking about you. quit trying to play games bro, you're one dumb fvck you know that?????
 

gherald

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why are you asking why she did it?

i guess that's stupid..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Craig_87

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well...thing is....shes my mates ex.....they broke up a month ago......and ive been told she plays hard to get like no other...shes also had a bad experience in the past, possibly from a bad relationship...so the entire summer my mate and her were together, they didnt sleep together...hence y he left........so basically im bein careful where i stand...without bein a *****......but i can see where yall comin from
 
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