"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Petraeus' Mistress husband is a good looking Doctor

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Bokanovsky said:
It seems that some of you are missing the forest for the trees. The real issue here, as far as I'm concerned, is that a good looking, presumably rather well off young doctor couldn't find a better option than this unattractive, tranny-like woman. The fact that the director of the CIA chose to put his career on the line for her masculine piece of @ss is even more troubling. It highlights the desperate state of the North American male. Even the elite men are forced to deal with unattractive, mentally unstable women. I mean, just look at the evolution - or should I say devolution - of presidential affairs. JFK was banging Marylin Monroe and Elizabeth Taylor. Thirty years later, Clinton was dumpster diving with Paula Jones and Monica Lewinsky. If the trend continues, we will soon be learning that BHO is having an affair with Missy Elliott.
A+. Not only did JFK bang Marylin Monroe, the biggest sex symbol of the time and maybe all time, Liz Taylor and probably other women, but the FBI and others knew all about it and kept it quiet. Nowadays even high status men are at best banging non-hotties and more often than not they lose careers and reputation for it. Men are now second class citizens to women.

OH yeah, and a wife cheating is 100% her fault.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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samspade said:
Hoover knew about JFK and used it for his own private leverage. It is worth noting however that JFK banged a woman who turned out to be an East German spy. Had Hoover not threatened the Congressional Republicans, it might have come out. Bottom line is although Kennedy was nailing better looking women, he too was 'dumpster diving' if you consider he potentially put our country at risk just so he could have an affair. I'd rather a president get a blowy from an intern than someone who would compromise our security.
In fairness, the intern could very easily be a spy too. You never know about such things. The point is that the supposedly 'most powerful man in the world' is actually a sexually frustrated, desperate chump who puts his career on the line for sex with the kind of women that, in many other countries, even an average peasant wouldn't touch. That is just downright embarrassing.

Let's do a quick international comparison:

Putin's mistress:
http://i.huffpost.com/gen/227920/VOGUE-COVER.jpg

Berlusconi's mistress:
http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01803/Mahroug-1_1803513i.jpg

Sarkozy's mistress (one that he eventually dumped his much older wife for):
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--_acb6Z0Shs/TW2-cJGG4RI/AAAAAAAAIQk/w_c6JtT4stg/s1600/cc5.jpg

And, finally, Clinton's mistress:
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hKy2NPx2U-0/T4Lt0bfBb6I/AAAAAAAAAOU/UprgCbfQh2k/s1600/Monica-Lewinsky-Feet-239678.jpg


If I was Clinton, I'd be embarrassed as hell!
 

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Bokanovsky said:
In fairness, the intern could very easily be a spy too. You never know about such things. The point is that the supposedly 'most powerful man in the world' is actually a sexually frustrated. desperate chump who puts his career on the line for sex with the kind of women that, in many other countries, even an average peasant wouldn't touch. That is just downright embarrassing.

Let's do a quick international comparison:

Putin's mistress:
http://www.kerala365.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/alina-kabaeva_weds_putin.jpg

Berlusconi's mistress:
http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01803/Mahroug-1_1803513i.jpg

Sarkozy's mistress (one that he eventually dumped his much older wife for):
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--_acb6Z0Shs/TW2-cJGG4RI/AAAAAAAAIQk/w_c6JtT4stg/s1600/cc5.jpg

And, finally, Clinton's mistress:
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hKy2NPx2U-0/T4Lt0bfBb6I/AAAAAAAAAOU/UprgCbfQh2k/s1600/Monica-Lewinsky-Feet-239678.jpg

If I was Clinton, I'd be embarrassed as hell!
I literally burst out laughing in my office. Point taken.

*Edit* Something about Putin's chic does it for me. I like, veeery niice. (borat style).
 

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I literally burst out laughing in my office.
Well, being a gold-winning gymnast, I'm sure she's a little more flexible in bed than Bill's beached whale :D
 

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backbreaker said:
I think more than anything what I am tryign tos ay, is that "fault" is a silly, childish concept. i dont' waste time worrying or trying to figure out whose "fault" it is it's not going to help or solve the situation. What I can do however is see what part i played in it, and rectify any bad behaviors that I had in the issue. faulting is not going to do anything but make you bitter and get you on the self pity train. all i can say is look she did this... did i miss anything that would have shwon me this was in her.. honestly.. what could i have done differently in the course of our relationship to not lead to this behavior.. make a note on it and move on/spin plates.

life's gonna go on rather i go with it or not.
Okay that makes sense...focus on what you have control over, not anything else. Most relationship failures I guess come down to lack of compatibility (failure to screen for somebody who can meet your needs and vice versa) or lack of relationship skills (failure to "maintain frame" or whatever nomenclature you want to use).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I was just watching the news just now and they were showing clips of her and her husband going on john stewart show to promote her book, also praising petraeus's wife and what not. Everything just seemed so wonderful and normal.

Just goes to show, the surface stuff you see with every day couples can be so damn misleading.


around the 8 minute mark you'll see her and her husband doing pushups with stewart. just a happy couple, ya know. lol.

http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/w...--push-up-contest-to-benefit-wounded-veterans
 

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What is the best way to screen out a woman like Paula Broadwell before it happens?
 

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Bokanovsky said:
In fairness, the intern could very easily be a spy too. You never know about such things. The point is that the supposedly 'most powerful man in the world' is actually a sexually frustrated, desperate chump who puts his career on the line for sex with the kind of women that, in many other countries, even an average peasant wouldn't touch. That is just downright embarrassing.

Let's do a quick international comparison:

Putin's mistress:
http://i.huffpost.com/gen/227920/VOGUE-COVER.jpg

Berlusconi's mistress:
http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01803/Mahroug-1_1803513i.jpg

Sarkozy's mistress (one that he eventually dumped his much older wife for):
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--_acb6Z0Shs/TW2-cJGG4RI/AAAAAAAAIQk/w_c6JtT4stg/s1600/cc5.jpg

And, finally, Clinton's mistress:
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hKy2NPx2U-0/T4Lt0bfBb6I/AAAAAAAAAOU/UprgCbfQh2k/s1600/Monica-Lewinsky-Feet-239678.jpg


If I was Clinton, I'd be embarrassed as hell!
Not to mention Clinton's wife Hilliary is dog ugly and has a horrible personality, and for that matter Petraeus's wife is ugly, so was George W's and I think Barrack wife Michelle ugly and unpleasant even for a black woman. At least Jacky O was somewhat attractive and feminine.
 

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Who cares what Clintons mistress looks like now? I am pretty sure she looked better back when it happened.
 

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I was just watching the news just now and they were showing clips of her and her husband going on john stewart show to promote her book, also praising petraeus's wife and what not. Everything just seemed so wonderful and normal.

Just goes to show, the surface stuff you see with every day couples can be so damn misleading.


around the 8 minute mark you'll see her and her husband doing pushups with stewart. just a happy couple, ya know. lol.

http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/wed-january-25-2012/exclusive---push-up-contest-to-benefit-wounded-veterans
hold on.. how the **** up lol

let me make sure i am underststanding this correclty


the married husband.. is going on TV.. WITH THE WIFE WHO MADE HIM A CHUCKHOLD.. TO PROMOTE THE BOOK THAT SHE WROTE ABOUT CHEATING ON HER HUSBAND, WHO IS SITTING RIGHT THERE NEXT TO HER AND ACTING LIKE EVERYTHING IS NORMAL


is that seriously what you are saying?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Malice said:
Who cares what Clintons mistress looks like now? I am pretty sure she looked better back when it happened.
Not much better.
 

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bradd80 said:
I might be wrong, but I think they went on that show together before the affair broke. I don't think this wh*re actually mentioned her having a sexual affair with Betrayus in her book.
LOL @ Betrayus :D
 

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yeah, she was on the show before she was outed.
 

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BREAKING NEWS: the hubbie was an absolute AFC and here's the article to prove it:

http://www.grantland.com/story/_/id/8624514/chuck-klosterman-david-petraeus-scandal-living-cia-conspiracy-theory

So apparently he knew about the whole affair for about a year, and had to write to the NYT to ask for advice on how to proceed! One of the three options he suggests for dealing with the situation is to not say anything and just "suffer in silence for the next year or two." How pathetic?

On a different note, growing up in Europe where every politician has a mistress and no one cares, I am always baffled by these high-profile resignations in the US.

EDIT: apparently the NYT denies the letter was by the hubbie... Just read it and see what you think
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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