"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maxtro

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Hmm, any chance Obey Propaganda is Snowman23? It seems a little fishy as how he is a new member and he's keeping this thread going.

As for banning Wutang I actually don't have any opinion :p I just think it's funny how almost all of this posts are about him being short, when he's two inches taller than I am :crazy:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KontrollerX said:
I think wutang is a good guy but unfortunately he may be beyond the help we can give to him.

Thats not to say we cannot support him should he seek therapy to overcome his problems as a lot of us will.

Yeah he can be extremely negative but eh thats what we've got ignore buttons for if posters can't deal with it.

"You are the last person on here that should be calling for anyone's ban."

Agreed.

The sh!t iqqi has done on the forum and not ever apologized for more than enough keeps her from ever being a credible voice of authority to anyone other than those misinformed enough to be part of her fan club.
2nded
 

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OMG SOME GUY POSTS TOO MANY NEGATIVE POSTS, IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD AS WE KNOW IT

... lol, stop being so pissy and ignore
 

iqqi

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KontrollerX said:
The sh!t iqqi has done on the forum and not ever apologized for more than enough keeps her from ever being a credible voice of authority to anyone other than those misinformed enough to be part of her fan club.
Oh GET OVER it. "The sh!t iqqi has done"?? Lol! Like what, have a different viewpoint than the good ole boys? Get off it.

"She hasn't even apologized" whine whine whine.

I'm sorry, KX.




















Sorry you are as useless as rubber lips on a woodpecker!!!! :moon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think the fact he has the whiny *****y "woe-is-me" pseudo "that's-reality" act going constantly brings me to discount much of what he has to say.

I like keeping people around who make me realize my mind isn't so phucked up LOL. Don't ban him, please!

And Maxtro, I hear ya, I'm shorter than him...but if I ever find myself embracing wutang's principles, please just shoot me.
 

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"I'm sorry, KX."

Iqqi!!! :cry:

*Iqqi and KX run towards eachother in slow motion and embrace* :cry: :cry: :cry:

KX: Apology accepted iqqster. :cry:
Iqqi: :cry:

KX: Wait though...what about the others you know backbreaker, keto, Str8up...just about the entire forum you've insulted in some way...will you iqqi...will you...apologize to them too?

KX: Iqqi are you there???

...
 
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I've noticed a few similar types on here. There's one that is always going on about height, one that is always going on about race, and one that is always going on about money.

As someone else said, they don't seem to be learning anything and their persistent polluting with their negativity undermines the work that everyone else has put into these forums.

I also suspect that at least one, if not all of them are Keyboard Jockeys.

That counts as a troll in my opinion.
 

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Like I said, who cares? There are tons of people on this board who need a good banning, but nothings going to be done about it, so it's best to just ignore those people. Take HandyAndy, he doesn't add anything to these forums, 50% of his post are trolling, he's publicly admitted he's scared to approach and then criticizes and hates on those who actually have the balls to. And even with all of that on him, the moderators still let him troll the forum.
 
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ElStud said:
Like I said, who cares? There are tons of people on this board who need a good banning, but nothings going to be done about it, so it's best to just ignore those people. Take HandyAndy, he doesn't add anything to these forums, 50% of his post are trolling, he's publicly admitted he's scared to approach and then criticizes and hates on those who actually have the balls to. And even with all of that on him, the moderators still let him troll the forum.
That is all well and good if you actually know who to ignore. Me, for example, my reality is strong enough to the point where their negativity doesn't affect me, my experience cancels out their bullshyt theory.

But what about the new guys? They come here and see these trolls with hundreds of posts and "Master Don Juan" status and they are liable to buy into their crap.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KontrollerX said:
"I'm sorry, KX."

Iqqi!!! :cry:

*Iqqi and KX run towards eachother in slow motion and embrace* :cry: :cry: :cry:

KX: Apology accepted iqqster. :cry:
Iqqi: :cry:

KX: Wait though...what about the others you know backbreaker, keto, Str8up...just about the entire forum you've insulted in some way...will you iqqi...will you...apologize to them too?

KX: Iqqi are you there???

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<iqqi gets up on soapbox>

I apologize to str8up, because I am sorry he is such an old geezer who is doomed to fornicate with married cougars, and I apologize to BB because even though I still think Wutang's crush was hotter than all of his chicks combined, I think BB is a changed man now, and I apologize to Keto because he is just pitiful and I feel sorry for him, and I apologize to cows because they are tasty and I like to eat them and I apologize to Wu actually, because he is short and will never get laid because of that, and I apologize to the kids who are not starving in Africa because our media has everyone thinking that is just how Africa is, and I apologize to my car for saying it is ugly even though it always gets me from a to b and I apologize to you again, KX because I will always be so much cooler than you and I know how much that has to hurt.
 

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You know, I used to start forum fights for fun and try to round up everyone against each other by sending PM's and such.... It's hilarious when it acutally works. With some people here, I'm sure I can do it if i wanted to. Childish huh?

Come on people, it's the internet. You don't know anyone, it's not worth it. Besides, why are we all here? For the same damn reason.
 

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wutangfinancial said:
alright, I won't post about height anymore. I don't think it's healthy for me, anyways. I wanted to raise awareness and create some sort of discourse, but there's no point in beating a dead horse.

I am down a lot of the time. I'm 23 on Friday. It's scaring the absolute sh!t out of me recently. I've still never had a real gf. And I guess I'm looking for any way to externalize my problem.

In any case, I have contributed a lot in the Anything Else column. I've offered legitimate, well researched advice on Economics, finance, and other topics, some of which I will be charging serious money for in the near future.
Kudos to you then.

We will hold you to that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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haha Iqqi, give me a virtual high five

seriously Iqqi I love the apology post by you - the way you think is like a female version of me lol. Hm we must be twins
 

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DJVladdy said:
haha Iqqi, give me a virtual high five

seriously Iqqi I love the apology post by you - the way you think is like a female version of me lol. Hm we must be twins
<hi fives DJVladdy>

edit: that was mean.
 
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wutangfinancial said:
alright, I won't post about height anymore. I don't think it's healthy for me, anyways. I wanted to raise awareness and create some sort of discourse, but there's no point in beating a dead horse.

I am down a lot of the time. I'm 23 on Friday. It's scaring the absolute sh!t out of me recently. I've still never had a real gf. And I guess I'm looking for any way to externalize my problem.

In any case, I have contributed a lot in the Anything Else column. I've offered legitimate, well researched advice on Economics, finance, and other topics, some of which I will be charging serious money for in the near future.
wutangfinancial, it's a "public" forum, and no one has a say in what you can write here, unless it goes against the rules set forth by the owner of this forum.. If a few here have a problem with your post then they should just read and post in a thread they find stimulating, and avoid yours.

I was under the assumption that this is a mature forum, no?
 

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EricInTheHouse said:
wutangfinancial, it's a "public" forum, and no one has a say in what you can write here, unless it goes against the rules set forth by the owner of this forum.. If a few here have a problem with your post then they should just read and post in a thread they find stimulating, and avoid yours.

I was under the assumption that this is a mature forum, no?
Um, no its not public. And people DO get banned. And Wu IS being considered for banishment. So don't advise him like you know, E.

Besides, you get banned all the time. So if wu doesn't want to get banned, then he shouldn't listen to you!
 

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I think this thread proves that people don't actually want to help wutang, or indeed other members of the site. It really is a shallow dog eat dog world. You complain that he moans about height but what advice have you actually given him?

People tell him he looks alright
He has decent enough social proof
He has a good degree/job prospects
They say he's 5' 8" which is OK
He is a good hearted guy

So where else does he go from here? What advice has been given? Indeed what iare infact his sticking points? Meh

MM
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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