"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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montybrown

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Whenever I do things she just stares at me and gawks at me with the most ****ed up looking face ever like when I want to watch a movie with her instead of ****ing paying attention to the movie she STARES at me from the side and it bothers me. Like she wants to hit me. She always askes me questions questioning my love for her, questioning EVERYTHING. Every conversation she askes me questions about "am I gonna like another girl, am I gonna cheat on her," every question in the book! Whenever she's with me her face looks depressed she has her arms crossed and I ask her "Why do you look mad for?" she responds "I'm not mad" I hate the fact she always yells at me whenever I'm calmed, she yells at me and starts a fight. What is wrong with her? She contacts my family members on AIM/Yahoo and asks them questions about me if I go out, crap like that. I don't want to put up with this I told her I don't want to be with her but she keeps bugging me, she shows up to my house without my permission whenever I just hang up on her and turn my phone off. What would you do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JonJack

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I would tell her I don't want to be with her and then actually break up with her and then look for some other girls. I'll talk to her about the "stalking" and if she doesn't stop, I ignore her. If after a weeks of ignoring her she still doesn't stop, I'll think of maybe some legal ways of getting her to not bug me anymore. Try getting other people to tell her not to bug you too. The more the merrier. Make her aware that her behaviour is not acceptable.
 

biker_gixxer

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I hate the fact she always yells at me whenever I'm calmed, she yells at me and starts a fight. What is wrong with her? She contacts my family members on AIM/Yahoo and asks them questions about me if I go out, crap like that.

Got yourself a psycho b*tch huh. Dude, do whatever it takes to get rid of her and do it quick. Ignore her, tell her your moving...whatever. The quicker you get rid of her, the better off you'll be.
 

tobiashunter

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Psycho! NEXT NOW!!! I had a girl like that once... The only reason I dated her for as long as I did was because we had sex 2-3 times a day when we were together... Just leave her, but watch out because she will STILL stalk you!
 

darthsidious

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Get rid of her, I dated a girl that was like this before. She would say "Were you looking at that girl" "What do you think about this girl" etc etc, basically those are all test questions but now that I think about it, those are questions that come from her insecurities and are part of her "b1tch tests" But this girl sounds like she would actually hurt you if you offend her the slightest.

The best way to dump this kinda girl is by acting in an exaggerated AFC way. Being super nice, asking for permission all the time, while you secretly focus on your life/other girls. Or you can act crazy and unpredictable but this will make her crazier too.

Cutting off all contact or telling her that you want to break up will make psycho girls even more pissed off.

I heard this story of this HB8 Asian woman who was 29 years old who got dumped by a White 35 year old Computer Consultant. She later stabbed him in the face and chest when he wasn't expecting it. Police found that the guy has been beaten and sliced several times before when they did an autopsy. So it appears that the White man put up with the girl - probably because she was attractive.
He paid a heavy price for that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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