"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dubh

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Im a mild-dj getting there. what is your take on them? she calls me all these soft names like muffin baby and love ect? I sometimes call her the same thing but could she b tryin take the frame how do you respond?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's all right........ if u have a good time!
Whether or not I have a pet peeve about the pet name 'love', I don't know, but whenever a woman has used that on me, it has been a frame grab. It's never happened in a relationship.. but it's always been used in a 'be a good boy and do that' way.
 
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Lol o yeah man its crazy because my afc wanted to reaspond but i just smiled at her did i mess up?
 
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I've seen guys turn this around onto the girl. If done in a funny way, you can get away with calling her stupid names like "muffin face" or "puppy pants". You just have to really play up the cutesie factor for her -- play the puppy-dog eyes, and a silly voice.

I use the nickname "nanna" a lot (another word for grandmother) with girls I meet, and back it up by accusing them of doing things like knitting at home and baking cookies (then insisting they bring some along for me).

Proselytiser is right -- don't get caught in it. If it's constantly in the "do something for me" sense, call her out on it. "Oh, I see what you're doing! Your evil mind control isn't going to work any more -- what's in it for me?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Heh, salmon I pretty much use the same line. I go with "Your Womanly powers do not work on me"
 
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