Persuading a Mom to have some fun!

[j0n024]

Hey guy's I actually think I'm trolling since I asked a question a little while ago but I need some help! Ok Saturday I ran into this girl that I had put on a pedestal ....my interpretation of maybe a 9.4 and above, I knew her sophomore year to senior and did what every AFC did ...nothing just be around her and hoped she would like me! Senior year I had a class with her BF at the time...I found out they had a kid so I kinda stopped trying you know, this is the kicker I heard her BF talked lots of sh1t about her behind her back, he would say things like "She's all loose since she had a kid," "She's fat as Fvck" all these things and then later on maybe a couple more weeks go by I see the girl I like GirlA start talking trash to girlB saying that girlB had sex with her bf and she knew they had a kid and all this. Now this Saturday I see her and chat her up still pretty good mauybe got a little fatter not that much but still close to a 9.3, I talk to her fluff really then I start.
ME:"What you doing tommorow?"
HER:"I dont know nothing really just go home and sleep till tommorow"
ME:"Really that sounds really boring!"
HER:"I know it is but what can you do"
ME:"Well you should go with me bowling(fun date) I havent done it in a long time"
HER:Smiling"I dont know how to bowl"
ME:"Well I havent done it in a long time itll be fun"
HER:"I dont know"
ME:"Come on itll be fun"touches her elbow(kino)"you do know what fun is dont you?"
HER:"Yes, I still do!"
ME:"2 hours, right after you get out of work Ill pick you up and we will go"
HER:"2 hours!"
ME: puts hand on her waist"Ya 2 hours it wont be that long since we will be having fun"
HER:"I dont know I'll feel bad"
ME:"Forget about him just come on"
Now after that she kept on saying she would feel bad and how he would know since he picked her up, she then had to help someone out (working mall) so instead of waiting I walked off to go look for some more potential ( I was still DJ'ng afterall) I come back when I was about to leave since I didnt say goodbye I wave her over, after she helps some guy she check's (she's short so she had to tippytoe over the clothes racks to see if I was there it looked cute) and tell her I was leaving she sounded sad but whatever I tell her it's the last time I would ask and she kept saying she didnt know and that she would feel bad! Now my question is how do I persuade her to come out with me and have some "FUN" with me, I know that if she does go with me that I will totally make a pass at her so I'm trying to get her to come out! Anyone have any tip's on how to break the shell and get her out with me so I can get this girl! Thanks guys and sorry for "TRolling" if that is what I'm doing but it needed to be done! Later.

 

[j0n024]

Anyone been in a similar situation that can help me out or what?

 

[IsiMan84]

She's obviously looking for any reason not to do anything with you, I would move on. And the way you're talking about her it sounds like she never left that pedestal. Next!

 

[onyx]

forget about her

 

[j0n024]

hahaha ok, thanks guys thanks for helping me out here hmm but I dont understand how I'm talking about her that she still seems like she is on the pedistal, care to explain?

 

[j0n024]

No more tips?

 

[penkitten]

why didnt you just offer to teach her?

 

[j0n024]

Teach her?

 

[Rhizzle]

I'm no expert......

I'm actually pretty new here. But I've had the oneitis so many times. I'm done with that.

I think the reason people are saying that she "never left the pedestal", is because she is making excuses not to go with you, and you are still on this. If she were off the pedestal, you would have said, "oh well, NEXT!" and moved along. The very fact that you've posted, makes people think she's still on the pedestal, and she does not need/deserve to be there.

Maybe I'm wrong, and maybe she isn't on it, but your typing reads that she is.

 

[j0n024]

hehe ya I thought that when someone else said she is still on the pedistal, and thought about it more seeing as how I actually made a post about her! I dont know I havent seen or thought about her for a long time till I saw her and she is one of those girls you would love to fvk you know, but I dont really care about her other then a one night or however long I could pummel her. But was is "Oneitis" I've read some posts and sometimes it says that word what is it? Is it when your just fixed on one girl? Because if thats the case I dont have it with her since I left and opened up more girls when I left her, but ohh well if I see her again I'll try again but I wont make it my mission to see her and ask her out again since that's a chumps way of getting things done! Thanks guys you helped me think about this and forget about her IF I do get with her I'll take some pics to see if she is worth being on the pedestal in the first place, Later and thanks.