"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RestoretheROAR84

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Hey I've got a problem in which I sweat excessively when I shouldn't. Light physical activity on a cold day for like 30 minutes will have me dripping with sweat while everyone else is completely dry, it's embarrassing. I can't wear any type of sweatshirt unless the weather is freezing cold or I'll sweat buckets. Even after gym class, I take a cold shower and then stand in front of the fan to get even cooler but still find myself sweating during the next hour. Has anyone else ever had this problem before and if so what helped?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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donjuanjovi

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It's called hyperhidrosis. There are two kinds. Primary and secondary. Primary is over active sweat glands and is nothing to worry about. Secondary hyperhidrosis is caused by a separate medical condition. Go see your doctor!
 

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I'm in pretty good shape with good muscle tone so I don't think that's the cause. I've heard of hyperhidrosis before and I've asked my mom about it but she just tells me how everyone sweats during physical activity and it's normal. I try to explain how it's not normal when I'm dripping and everyone else is completely dry, but that doesn't work. Is there any over the counter solution to this problem or does it have to be prescribed by a doctor to have any effect?
 

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I really don't know much about hyperhidrosis. If you're finding that you're sweating for no reason than there's a problem. Unless your moms a doctor I would seriously go see your physician. There's nothing like piece of mind
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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