"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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RestoretheROAR84

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Hey I've got a problem in which I sweat excessively when I shouldn't. Light physical activity on a cold day for like 30 minutes will have me dripping with sweat while everyone else is completely dry, it's embarrassing. I can't wear any type of sweatshirt unless the weather is freezing cold or I'll sweat buckets. Even after gym class, I take a cold shower and then stand in front of the fan to get even cooler but still find myself sweating during the next hour. Has anyone else ever had this problem before and if so what helped?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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donjuanjovi

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It's called hyperhidrosis. There are two kinds. Primary and secondary. Primary is over active sweat glands and is nothing to worry about. Secondary hyperhidrosis is caused by a separate medical condition. Go see your doctor!
 

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I'm in pretty good shape with good muscle tone so I don't think that's the cause. I've heard of hyperhidrosis before and I've asked my mom about it but she just tells me how everyone sweats during physical activity and it's normal. I try to explain how it's not normal when I'm dripping and everyone else is completely dry, but that doesn't work. Is there any over the counter solution to this problem or does it have to be prescribed by a doctor to have any effect?
 

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I really don't know much about hyperhidrosis. If you're finding that you're sweating for no reason than there's a problem. Unless your moms a doctor I would seriously go see your physician. There's nothing like piece of mind
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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