perspectives needed

[up_an_up]

hey new guy here, been lurking for a while now. Im pretty good with approaches and getting numbers and what not but lately ive been having a problem. my problem is i cant seem to pace a "relationship" right. Im not looking for a 1 night stand, but im not looking for a LTR either so i cant decide how quick to do things. Im at a toss up between being aggressive and going for sex on a first date and hoping she becomes interested after, or establishing a rapport before dating, then mabye only kissing on the first date and doing more the next date. Im doing each one half assed and neither seem to give results. Which do you think would yeild better results for me? or is there a combo anyone recommends
Thanks

 

[thatguyjamalx]

Bro, just go into sets, & not give a *uck, thats my advice, your not getting any either way so flip your style up.

I think your getting too bogged down in emotion and thought. Run SOLID game, like what's been mentioned all over this forum, and others, Keep practicing, then keep practicing some more, and the results will speak for themselves.

Happy h(c)unting.

 

[up_an_up]

thanks i kinda figured that. My game must have slipped this past month lol

 

[ChrizZ]

hey new guy here, been lurking for a while now. Im pretty good with approaches and getting numbers and what not but lately ive been having a problem. my problem is i cant seem to pace a "relationship" right. Im not looking for a 1 night stand, but im not looking for a LTR either so i cant decide how quick to do things. Im at a toss up between being aggressive and going for sex on a first date and hoping she becomes interested after, or establishing a rapport before dating, then mabye only kissing on the first date and doing more the next date. Im doing each one half assed and neither seem to give results. Which do you think would yeild better results for me? or is there a combo anyone recommends
Thanks

I'm not a relationship expert, but I heard that the earlier you have sex with her, the better. That's what ultimately makes her your gf and not sissy talk.

 

[Nighthawk]

Think of yourself as happy to be a player unless someone makes you an offer you can't refuse. Women like a challenge. Enjoy playing the field as long as possible until an AMAZING woman puts all her effort into catching you.