"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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personality traits of a dj:

LittleElf

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F***!!:eek: Where the hell am I going to find a guy like that? If such a guy was out there I would go gay in a minute. ;) You guys are trying way too hard. The sad thing is that most American females think they will find a guy with all of the traits mentioned.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pimpfromdayone

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Well you shouldn't have to try to be like that..... you either are or you aren't. Trying too hard would be the opposite of DJ.
 

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Originally posted by Vulture
Confident
Mysterious
Humor
Arrogant (with Humor)
Unpredictable
Different
Rare
All-itis
Interesting
Knowledgeable
Alpha
Independent (doesn't need anyone because he is the prize)
Fun
Caring
Stable (doesn't let other people control his emotions)
Suave (hehe, go figure)
Successful (at what he is involved in)
Adventurous
Spontaneous


DJ = Strong inner game
If I may add one very important point to your list... QUICKNESS . What I am talking about is that you have to recognize and jump on every single opportunity asap. You have to be quick in making decisions and seeing opportunities where you can ask women out. There is no substitute. You can walk around with the sickest seduction skills of all time but if you don't analyze a situation quickly and target your prey... you can pretty much call it quits on women because they'll be there and then they'll be gone in an instant.
 
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