Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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personality traits of a dj:

LittleElf

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F***!!:eek: Where the hell am I going to find a guy like that? If such a guy was out there I would go gay in a minute. ;) You guys are trying way too hard. The sad thing is that most American females think they will find a guy with all of the traits mentioned.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pimpfromdayone

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Well you shouldn't have to try to be like that..... you either are or you aren't. Trying too hard would be the opposite of DJ.
 

wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by Vulture
Confident
Mysterious
Humor
Arrogant (with Humor)
Unpredictable
Different
Rare
All-itis
Interesting
Knowledgeable
Alpha
Independent (doesn't need anyone because he is the prize)
Fun
Caring
Stable (doesn't let other people control his emotions)
Suave (hehe, go figure)
Successful (at what he is involved in)
Adventurous
Spontaneous


DJ = Strong inner game
If I may add one very important point to your list... QUICKNESS . What I am talking about is that you have to recognize and jump on every single opportunity asap. You have to be quick in making decisions and seeing opportunities where you can ask women out. There is no substitute. You can walk around with the sickest seduction skills of all time but if you don't analyze a situation quickly and target your prey... you can pretty much call it quits on women because they'll be there and then they'll be gone in an instant.
 
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