"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Personality test!

Le Parisien

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Unregistered said:
I think the problem with these personality tests is that most people answer the questions how they want themselves to be, rather than how they necessarily are. I know that's usually the case with me.

Actions speak louder than words.
I think the genuinely confident or lucid people will answer honestly. Because there's no one here to judge you, it's only for yourself, to see where you stand. A great score won't make you great person, a bad score won't make your life any harder...

If some one even feels the need to lie to himself/herself:nervous: , then he/she must be a real loser in life...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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S1NN3R

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diplomatic_lies

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Unregistered said:
I think the problem with these personality tests is that most people answer the questions how they want themselves to be, rather than how they necessarily are.
I definitely agree.

Le Parisien said:
I think the genuinely confident or lucid people will answer honestly.
But the problem is, do they know themselves that well? Very few people in this world can actually assess themselves. We either have inflated views of ourselves, or depressed views (depending on the size of our confidence & ego).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't like personality tests. People defined by a simple forty-question survey? There are better ways for us to spend our time.
 

Taviii

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Sin Verdad said:
I don't like personality tests. People defined by a simple forty-question survey? There are better ways for us to spend our time.
Mate, its just a little fun.
 

S1NN3R

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diplomatic_lies said:
But the problem is, do they know themselves that well? Very few people in this world can actually assess themselves. We either have inflated views of ourselves, or depressed views (depending on the size of our confidence & ego).
I feel that mine is very accurate not only with my own personal view of myself, but from what I hear others have said about me as well.
 

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I have empathy

I scored a "Advocating Creator" rating....

Guess the difference between me and you guys is I'm just now working on the DJ principles. Maybe the DJ bible and boot camp beats the empathy out of ya......:kick: ?

I just started week 1 last thrusday.... I"ll take this test again at the end of the boot camp and see if anything changes...........
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Yep. I have been in too many fights. (have you, manuva?)
Ex-soldier and former boxer here mate. Seen a little brawl here and there ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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