"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have read women and dating and have started on the book of Pook.

I am just going to share some thoughts. For years I held this notion that the ease of getting a girlfriend/sex depends on the personality/intelligence/culture of the particular woman. For that reason, during my college age I did not want a smart girl because they would be harder to seduce and I thought the dumb girls were better looking either. I was also particularly interested in Mexican girls because of a stereo impression type I had about them. And I am sure you all agree that every girl is different.

What these books, among other sources seem to suggest is that Women have a common denominator, namely that women, especially the best looking, want a lot of masculinity and when the ones who don't are the ugly ones and the Tomboys.

So tell me what I am missing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have read women and dating and have started on the book of Pook.

I am just going to share some thoughts. For years I held this notion that the ease of getting a girlfriend/sex depends on the personality/intelligence/culture of the particular woman. For that reason, during my college age I did not want a smart girl because they would be harder to seduce and I thought the dumb girls were better looking either. I was also particularly interested in Mexican girls because of a stereo impression type I had about them. And I am sure you all agree that every girl is different.

What these books, among other sources seem to suggest is that Women have a common denominator, namely that women, especially the best looking, want a lot of masculinity and when the ones who don't are the ugly ones and the Tomboys.

So tell me what I am missing.
Women will eventually get tired of being the man in the relationship, get turned off and dump feminine men. The term 'boy toy' comes to mind.
 

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They are all turned on by masculine men. I don't care what they say or what type of guy they get with. The most masculine acting females require more beta, less masculine men to keep harmony in their relationships. The woman needs a man she can control and exert power over, and doesn't challenge her. However she will still be most turned on by masculine men they just don't work long term.

The most feminine women end up with the most masculine men because that's how the mating world works(best men get the best women). Each are assigned high value by society. The least feminine women get the lowest quality men.
 

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Attraction is not a choice!

Both men and women have a a carnal attraction on a genetic level that responds in a physical sense.
For men you get a surge of energy around an attractive mate. Almost like a fight or flight response. It's an untapped energy just waiting to be unleashed.
For women you can hear their voice levels change or get a glimpse of their nervous energy. They also tend to fidget with their hair a lot.
 

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They are all turned on by masculine men. I don't care what they say or what type of guy they get with. The most masculine acting females require more beta, less masculine men to keep harmony in their relationships. The woman needs a man she can control and exert power over, and doesn't challenge her. However she will still be most turned on by masculine men they just don't work long term.

The most feminine women end up with the most masculine men because that's how the mating world works(best men get the best women). Each are assigned high value by society. The least feminine women get the lowest quality men.
Can confirm. Dated a Man In an woman's body. I was a blue pill, Beta whatever you wanna call it. She had high testosterone and bpd/npd to boot. She always used to pride herself on being/thinking like a Man while I prepared candle lit baths and meals for her that she would sometimes flake on..

That what being raised by a single mom in a family of women will do to ya! Ying and Yan and all that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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