Personality Disorders.
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Here's the women to avoid...
The four Cluster B Personality Disorders are as follows and women exhibiting these traits are to be avoided at all costs. They will destroy you mentally and emotionally if you are to try and have a serious relationship with one of them.
Wikipedia has posted some excellent Mnemonic's on the first two types I will list so I'll use them in my examples and just the diagnostic criteria for the last two:
1. Histrionic Personality Disorder-
* P - provocative (or seductive) behavior
* R - relationships, considered more intimate than they are
* A - attention, must be at center of
* I - influenced easily
* S - speech (style) - wants to impress, lacks detail
* E - emotional lability, shallowness
* M - make-up - physical appearance used to draw attention to self
* E - exaggerated emotions - theatrical
2. Borderline Personality Disorder-
* P - Paranoid ideas
* R - Relationship instability
* A - Angry outbursts, affective instability, abandonment fears
* I - Impulsive behavior, identity disturbance
* S - Suicidal behavior
* E - Emptiness
3. Narcissistic Personality Disorder-
1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3. believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by other special people
4. requires excessive admiration
5. strong sense of entitlement
6. takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
7. lacks empathy
8. is often envious or believes others are envious of him or her
9. arrogant behavior
4. Anti Social Personality Disorder (formerly known as sociopaths or psychopaths)-
1. failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest.
2. deceitfulness, as indicated by repeatedly lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure
3. impulsivity or failure to plan ahead
4. irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults
5. reckless disregard for safety of self or others
6. consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations
7. lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abfd_Ti2UN8
Here is a video of a BPD woman.
You see her all sad and crying and this stuff appeals to captain save a ho types who want to rescue her and in fixing her brokeness they think they will vicariously fix themselves through fixing her.
The problem is personality disorders cannot be fixed by anyone only treated by a trained professional with varying degrees of relief for those afflicted.
BPD's eat savior types alive.
They turn your world upside down because their actions and behaviours within your relationship together are not logical.
They will be more sweet than any other person you've ever known at first but once they know that they have your love they will begin to irrationally hate you for it since no matter what you say they fear you will abandon them, they will rage and cut themselves and cry if you ever indicate you will leave them since they are so afraid of being abandoned like their parents abandoned them when they were young and they will cheat on you with wild abandon and no consideration for your feelings since they need distractions like this to ease their troubled turmoil filled minds and plus they get satisfaction out of hurting you like their parents hurt them through neglect when they were very young.
They will put on a facade for society of normalcy and make you appear to be the crazy one if you stick around and tell other people of your troubles as after all, all that other people see is the girl acting nice and you being upset but behind closed doors the monster and the wounded child that she is will appear and victimize you if you stay with her.
To see a film portrayel of a BPD watch Angelina Jolie's character closely in the movie Girl Interrupted.
The Showtime original series Dexter is an excellent portrayel of a sociopath though the grand majority of them do not kill like Dexter does and if they did it would most likely not be to benefit society.
To learn about Histrionics through film watch the movie Blue Sky starring Tommy Lee Jones and Jessica Lange.
And for Narcissists Sam Vaknin's various online sites about it are excellent reads for anyone who wishes to learn more about it.
Overall though Cluster B personality disordered people all create a false persona for their victims to fall in love with by mirroring your best qualities and throwing them back at you and if you haven't loved yourself enough in life you will be psychologically and emotionally destroyed when they inevitably get bored with you and go onto their next victim. They go onto their next victim for various reasons but the most common one is they are either close to being found out for what they are, they simply got bored of you or you loved them and they began to hate you for it since you remind them of their parents never having loved them so they pay their parents back through hurting you and the worst part of it all is they often do not know that there are these deep reasons for the bad things that they do. They just follow their rapidly changing feelings and boredom with no responsibility just like children because that is what they really are in reality. Grown children whose development was stopped too soon at a critical point during their formative years.
The four Cluster B Personality Disorders are as follows and women exhibiting these traits are to be avoided at all costs. They will destroy you mentally and emotionally if you are to try and have a serious relationship with one of them.
Wikipedia has posted some excellent Mnemonic's on the first two types I will list so I'll use them in my examples and just the diagnostic criteria for the last two:
1. Histrionic Personality Disorder-
* P - provocative (or seductive) behavior
* R - relationships, considered more intimate than they are
* A - attention, must be at center of
* I - influenced easily
* S - speech (style) - wants to impress, lacks detail
* E - emotional lability, shallowness
* M - make-up - physical appearance used to draw attention to self
* E - exaggerated emotions - theatrical
2. Borderline Personality Disorder-
* P - Paranoid ideas
* R - Relationship instability
* A - Angry outbursts, affective instability, abandonment fears
* I - Impulsive behavior, identity disturbance
* S - Suicidal behavior
* E - Emptiness
3. Narcissistic Personality Disorder-
1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3. believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by other special people
4. requires excessive admiration
5. strong sense of entitlement
6. takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
7. lacks empathy
8. is often envious or believes others are envious of him or her
9. arrogant behavior
4. Anti Social Personality Disorder (formerly known as sociopaths or psychopaths)-
1. failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest.
2. deceitfulness, as indicated by repeatedly lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure
3. impulsivity or failure to plan ahead
4. irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults
5. reckless disregard for safety of self or others
6. consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations
7. lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abfd_Ti2UN8
Here is a video of a BPD woman.
You see her all sad and crying and this stuff appeals to captain save a ho types who want to rescue her and in fixing her brokeness they think they will vicariously fix themselves through fixing her.
The problem is personality disorders cannot be fixed by anyone only treated by a trained professional with varying degrees of relief for those afflicted.
BPD's eat savior types alive.
They turn your world upside down because their actions and behaviours within your relationship together are not logical.
They will be more sweet than any other person you've ever known at first but once they know that they have your love they will begin to irrationally hate you for it since no matter what you say they fear you will abandon them, they will rage and cut themselves and cry if you ever indicate you will leave them since they are so afraid of being abandoned like their parents abandoned them when they were young and they will cheat on you with wild abandon and no consideration for your feelings since they need distractions like this to ease their troubled turmoil filled minds and plus they get satisfaction out of hurting you like their parents hurt them through neglect when they were very young.
They will put on a facade for society of normalcy and make you appear to be the crazy one if you stick around and tell other people of your troubles as after all, all that other people see is the girl acting nice and you being upset but behind closed doors the monster and the wounded child that she is will appear and victimize you if you stay with her.
To see a film portrayel of a BPD watch Angelina Jolie's character closely in the movie Girl Interrupted.
The Showtime original series Dexter is an excellent portrayel of a sociopath though the grand majority of them do not kill like Dexter does and if they did it would most likely not be to benefit society.
To learn about Histrionics through film watch the movie Blue Sky starring Tommy Lee Jones and Jessica Lange.
And for Narcissists Sam Vaknin's various online sites about it are excellent reads for anyone who wishes to learn more about it.
Overall though Cluster B personality disordered people all create a false persona for their victims to fall in love with by mirroring your best qualities and throwing them back at you and if you haven't loved yourself enough in life you will be psychologically and emotionally destroyed when they inevitably get bored with you and go onto their next victim. They go onto their next victim for various reasons but the most common one is they are either close to being found out for what they are, they simply got bored of you or you loved them and they began to hate you for it since you remind them of their parents never having loved them so they pay their parents back through hurting you and the worst part of it all is they often do not know that there are these deep reasons for the bad things that they do. They just follow their rapidly changing feelings and boredom with no responsibility just like children because that is what they really are in reality. Grown children whose development was stopped too soon at a critical point during their formative years.