"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crissco

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Everyone has there own personality. One person can be funnier then the next, the next person may be louder then everyone in the room...etc. When I get around a lot of people this thing clicks in and I get the life of the party attitude. Im usually ****y and have a bit of an ego. I don't like the ego portion, I don't think thats a good trait to have.
What are other personality traits you guys have noticed in people that stand out?


Crissco
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Mad Ghost

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The guys that screams out ...... WOOO, GET SOME, F.UCK YEA everynight and has a beer in hand who makes everybody crack up in disbelief. The one with the crazy faux hawk hairstyle, pecs, abs and loudmouth who makes sexual remarks at EVERY female in the venue. Cheerfullness in the face of ........REJECTION and makes the girl who rejected him the B!tch of the party. The guy that doesn't care how people view him in public. That guy who has ...GENTLE RIDICULE rather than sympathy when sh!t hits the fan.
 

Guoy Darko

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The Mad Ghost said:
The guys that screams out ...... WOOO, GET SOME, F.UCK YEA everynight and has a beer in hand who makes everybody crack up in disbelief. The one with the crazy faux hawk hairstyle, pecs, abs and loudmouth who makes sexual remarks at EVERY female in the venue. Cheerfullness in the face of ........REJECTION and makes the girl who rejected him the B!tch of the party. The guy that doesn't care how people view him in public. That guy who has ...GENTLE RIDICULE rather than sympathy when sh!t hits the fan.
Haha, yeah those guys are awful. :) The harder the doggie barks, the emptier the head. But what'd you expect when they drink beer EVERY NIGHT!
 

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The Mad Ghost said:
The one with the crazy faux hawk hairstyle, pecs, abs and loudmouth who makes sexual remarks at EVERY female in the venue. Cheerfullness in the face of ........REJECTION and makes the girl who rejected him the B!tch of the party.
This looks like a job for Sexual Harassment Panda. :yes:
 

Crissco

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The Mad Ghost said:
The guys that screams out ...... WOOO, GET SOME, F.UCK YEA everynight and has a beer in hand who makes everybody crack up in disbelief. The one with the crazy faux hawk hairstyle, pecs, abs and loudmouth who makes sexual remarks at EVERY female in the venue. Cheerfullness in the face of ........REJECTION and makes the girl who rejected him the B!tch of the party. The guy that doesn't care how people view him in public. That guy who has ...GENTLE RIDICULE rather than sympathy when sh!t hits the fan.
I think the best out of all of those are the guy who doesn't care how ppl view him in public. Ppl should adapt that I dont give a **** attitude. Unfortunately most people are too shy. Or the guy whos give gentle ridicule, but in the right way to break the ice so to speak, not out of nervousness.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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