"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what's the definition of bad guys in your perspective? just yesterday a hot girl told me she likes bad guys..but it takes a lot to her to admit this..i guess they hide their inner part..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As I see it bad guy does not mean bad or criminal, duh lol. It means basically a man, someone not afraid to ruffle a few feathers, does not explain or give reasons for bad mood, may suddenly get up and leave if he is in a bad mood and she may not hear from him for a day. Sometimes does things on the spur of the moment etc.:flowers:
 
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Trapper said:
what's the definition of bad guys in your perspective? just yesterday a hot girl told me she likes bad guys..but it takes a lot to her to admit this..i guess they hide their inner part..
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You want bad guys? You want to see bad guys? You sure?

Go to the bottom of my sig. Check the forum and read posts by BrianArmstron and theREALhaterproof.

These are the kind of guys your broad likes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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