Personal Experience: BE ORGANIZED!

[Marlimus]

I have been noticing a disturbing phenomenon for a while now, and I finally realized what I was doing wrong.
When I'm up to it, I can gather phone numbers like a machine. Withing the first two weeks of this semester I had about ten numbers, all of them 8's or up. Out of that ten (its actually more than ten) , how many have I hooked up with so far?

Two.

There was a great disparity between the phone numbers I get, and the phone numbers that lead anywhere, and its because I wasn't organized. I'm a busy guy. I work two jobs, study, plus I hit the gym religiously. I have a tendency to only reserve mental space for a few girls at a time regardless of how many successful pickups I've had.

i began to think: what would happen if I put the a fraction of the amount of planning/ organizing into my romantic life as I did into my hobbies/studying?

SOME IDEAS:
1) Remember the women!!!!!Ever had a phone number expire cuz, well, your forgot to ever call the girl? Women will sometimes NEXT a guy if he takes an unreasonable time to call.

2)For every given interaction, have a goal in mind, and have the end in mind. you get the number. Decide when you are going to call. Decide if you will leave a message or not, and if you will ask her out or not. Have a plan. Don't just talk just to shoot the **** and talk about boring stuff. Have a tip/technique that you want to try

3) Have a schedule of events/possible date ideas for a time period.

SET SPECIFIC GOALS!!!!! my goals are as follows:
1) At least one date every weekend (especially friday night)
2) At least one kiss close every two weeks
3) At least 3 new phone numbers every two weeks

And if you'e a busy guy like me, pick a top five, but keep rotating the top five. While a chick's in your top five, you flirt, bust, raise attraction, date/close. When you're satisfied there's a connection, you rotate, you replace her with some other girl, and you keep going. That way, your phone numbers don't expire, you have variety, and it allows you to draw back and give a girl the space she needs to chase you- while you're not thinking about her at all.




Marlimus out

 

[Spirit Fingers]

This is a very good tip. I keep a text file on my computer of all my current numbers with details about each one, so I don't forget them. If you just put them in your phone book, half of the time you forget to call.

-Dan

 

[Boner da Stoner]

lol I love calling girls, or seeing em on the street, and just having no clue who the **** they are when they wrap their arms around you...

What should I do in that situation? I know I rightly can't pull my computer out of my pocket and try and figure out who they are.

 

[Ricky]

Funny how I have been meaning to make a text file as well!

I have confused girls and details before. Not a good thing LOL

 

[wheelin&dealin]

I make a file with the following headings for each girl:

Age, Height, Weight, Hotness factor, Does she love me yet,...

Then I fill in the blanks as they become due.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

hey wheelin, like two peas we is

I included games we play, where we met, when her bday is, how much I love her, what her shoe size is, her favourite colour, and who her biggest crush is

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
hey wheelin, like two peas we is

I included games we play, where we met, when her bday is, how much I love her, what her shoe size is, her favourite colour, and who her biggest crush is

Everyday I make a note of how much I love her on a scale of 1 - 10. I think this really helps me out.

 

[Dapper Swindler]

This is a great idea. I would even add everyone I know to the list; people I want to keep networking with and not lose touch with. I would add a "last met" date as a factor.

It's hilarious. You could enter all their stats into a database and then run an algorithm to determine who you should call first to hang out with.

 

[Marlimus]

whoa

algorhythms! Nah that's takin it a bit too far

 

[Boner da Stoner]

lol Dappler, you go ahead and donate your brain to science and let it work day and night configuring the algorithm to all the changes and possibilities...

it's easier to just do your own thing, and find new girls to talk to, just use your memory and your own judgement

 

[Docs]

I like this tip...maybe one day I'll use it once I hit bar-doom.

 

[Ricky]

Hahah, actually guys I did think of doing a tracking study with interest level. However so many things factor in on it.

But basically we know if we call a girl too much she could lose interest. Would be interesting to track communication and contact with a girl and try to come up with some sort of statistical proof.

Of course as we know, for something to be statistically significant it is good to have as large of a sample size as possible. That means go out and meet alot of women! Which would solve everyones problems anyways.