"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So for some reason there have been little to no threads in recent YEARS about personal ads, or maybe I just don't give enough of a **** to think of anything besides "Personal ad" to type into search. Only weirdo's refer to it as anything else, anyways.

What would you guys write for your personal ad, so I could steal your ideas and make them my own? Or to spare you some time, which of the numerous sex fiends you refer to as pick-up artists did you hijack your ideas from?

Don't feel too used and dirtied after, if you please. It'll make me feel bad. :rolleyes:

An EDIT here: Now that it's posted, I could swear I was in Don Juan discussion. Admins, would you mind moving it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I wouldn't say they are a waste. I thought you guys would have an understanding that any base a DJ can cover he will cover, and enough people have seen results from personal ads that they are a very viable pathway.

Let's just say I'm interested in seeing what kind of girls are available through it that I may not see (or see enough of) in the 3D world.
 

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Isn't this what Plentyoffish and other internet sites are for nowadays?
 
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