"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Persisting, continuing after no.

Monkora

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I've read a fair few **** closures where the girl initially resists or says no, and you guys have just kept going, slowly getting her naked or whatever. What's the key to judging whether if this is successful? I don't want to rape anyone!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cassanova_Child

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I might be wrong here, but most of the cases you're talking about where they got a girl naked after she said "no", she hasn't said an explicit no yet....

for example (during a heavy make-out)

him: lets go back to my place.
her: no... I really shouldn't, I'm not like this usually, we shouldn't be making out etc....
him: yeah.... I know (keeps kissing her - waits a bit). Let's go back to my place.

as opposed to her just saying no. the above example isnt great, but it gets the job done. persistance can work in diffusing her 'no' when she already wants you, but not if she doesn't.
 

Scar Tissue

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If she says no to removing clothes but continues to making out your fine. Just focus on kissing for a couple minutes and try again with the clothes.

If she says no and pulls back you obviously are done.

It helps to know where women are sensitive to touch. Kissing ears and neck, lightly pulling hair, and rubbing lower back are all innocent parts of the body that turn her on. Especially the lower back**
You can also try inccidental stimulation on her more sensitive parts. Letting your arm brush up against her breast or thigh on her inner thigh. She will see nothing wrong with it when you "accidentally" touch her and will turn her.
Turn the girl on and you wont have a problem with them saying no.
 

Analyzeit

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I think the fact is and speaking from direct experience here, you will no by the look on her face and the tone of her voice if no means NO.

Scar tissues right if she pulls back it's finished. Cassanova is also right but really you can tell when no means no.

Sometime if she says no i like to tease her with it, teasing gets chicks going real bad lol. always nice to have one little tip.
 
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