"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Persisting, continuing after no.

Monkora

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I've read a fair few **** closures where the girl initially resists or says no, and you guys have just kept going, slowly getting her naked or whatever. What's the key to judging whether if this is successful? I don't want to rape anyone!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cassanova_Child

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I might be wrong here, but most of the cases you're talking about where they got a girl naked after she said "no", she hasn't said an explicit no yet....

for example (during a heavy make-out)

him: lets go back to my place.
her: no... I really shouldn't, I'm not like this usually, we shouldn't be making out etc....
him: yeah.... I know (keeps kissing her - waits a bit). Let's go back to my place.

as opposed to her just saying no. the above example isnt great, but it gets the job done. persistance can work in diffusing her 'no' when she already wants you, but not if she doesn't.
 

Scar Tissue

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If she says no to removing clothes but continues to making out your fine. Just focus on kissing for a couple minutes and try again with the clothes.

If she says no and pulls back you obviously are done.

It helps to know where women are sensitive to touch. Kissing ears and neck, lightly pulling hair, and rubbing lower back are all innocent parts of the body that turn her on. Especially the lower back**
You can also try inccidental stimulation on her more sensitive parts. Letting your arm brush up against her breast or thigh on her inner thigh. She will see nothing wrong with it when you "accidentally" touch her and will turn her.
Turn the girl on and you wont have a problem with them saying no.
 

Analyzeit

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I think the fact is and speaking from direct experience here, you will no by the look on her face and the tone of her voice if no means NO.

Scar tissues right if she pulls back it's finished. Cassanova is also right but really you can tell when no means no.

Sometime if she says no i like to tease her with it, teasing gets chicks going real bad lol. always nice to have one little tip.
 
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