"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Persistence vs Nexting

raidou

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this has really been hurting my game lately guys, drawing the line for when nexting is warranted and when i should keep pressing. I mean, nobody has time for low interests chicks!

This is kinda vague, but where do you all draw the line?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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emelec

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i dont next girls i usually just keep them in the backburner while i pursue other girls. and maybe go back to the low interest girls after a long while and try to seduce them again.
 

Obsidian

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after one flake or two unreturned calls, typically
 

raidou

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wtf, i am sick and tired of getting flake by girls who often seem obviously interested. my last three date attempts were all flakes. i fear i may just be taking these things too seriously though. anyone with any advice?
 

Snow Plowman

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Start running solid sets and stop fiending to get #s. Some things that will help though.

1. Qualification is a MUST to lower flaking
2. Push the set as far as it can go, go on a instadate (Why hangout later when you can hangout now?)
3. If you must, then go for the #

Stop crying over flakes, if it happens it happens, next time do solid game.

As for nexting and persisting, I tend to love testing stuff out because this is fun, so I tend to never really next a chick. I see how far it can go, until she runs away.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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