Some say girls like a man who is persistent and won't give up easy. Others say indifference is a man's best friend. I'm so confused. If you were truly indifferent than you probably wouldn't be persistent and would just move on to the next one. Am I missing something? How can you be both persistent and indifferent at the same time?
I've experienced a few real life examples where the persistent guy gets the girl over the higher value dude just because he is more persistent. Seriously, I've seen girls go home with guys that follow them around at parties. The girl may still be more attracted to the higher value guy but settles for the persistent guy.
This has a lot of implications. Is persistence beta behavior or is it just a man going for what he wants? Does indifference work or is it just self-sabotaging?
I've experienced a few real life examples where the persistent guy gets the girl over the higher value dude just because he is more persistent. Seriously, I've seen girls go home with guys that follow them around at parties. The girl may still be more attracted to the higher value guy but settles for the persistent guy.
This has a lot of implications. Is persistence beta behavior or is it just a man going for what he wants? Does indifference work or is it just self-sabotaging?