"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you think if a girl was interested in the past,

but is not currently interested...


if you persist in trying to get her ..


that she will eventually cave in, .. will persistence work like "Harry Truman's way"

or will it just be a waist of time ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The only way I can see it happening is if you run into her 5 years later when all the other guys your age are married and have beer guts and you're still a handsome successful guy. And then, she'll probably be tubby too, so you wouldn't even want to mess with it. Maybe I'm just a pessimist, but it seems like that's the way it works generally.
 
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Seeing you with another girl is about the only way I know to change the disinterested to interested. If she shows no jealousy or emotion about it, then you had no chance anyway.
 
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MooseGod said:
The only way I can see it happening is if you run into her 5 years later when all the other guys your age are married and have beer guts and you're still a handsome successful guy. And then, she'll probably be tubby too, so you wouldn't even want to mess with it. Maybe I'm just a pessimist, but it seems like that's the way it works generally.
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Hell yeah it does. I wish I knew that when I was 21.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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all i can say is that, if you truly like this girl, then you should give it your best. you never know. sometimes people dont like you right away, and the more time you spend with them, the more they will realize the person you are. let me give you a real life example. my sister in law didnt like my brother at first when they first met, she wasnt her type, but he was so persistent, that now they're married with a kid. so it can happen, go for it!
 
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You CAN force interest level. It's called making yourself worth it. If you weren't good enough for her at one time, there is no reason a year or two later you can't be.
 
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guys, she was interested about 1-2 months ago..

it wasn't like years ago

thanks.

"It's called making yourself worth it"

how?
 
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