"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Persistance

Bvbidd

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:yes: It's not a attractive trait, but it's a paradox as it's also the most crucial trait.

You got to balance it. Too much and your a creepy loser, not at all and your sitting at home jacking off.

I'm asking how you guys balance this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Snow Plowman

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So longs your persistent from a position of power then it doesn't matter how long you persist, you'll never look needy.

Try persisting to get a meet up for over an hour lol. It seriously gets tiring but eventually the girl gives up.

If she didn't care in the first place she could've just hung up
 
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