"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Persistance without annoyance

Bling

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Where do you draw the line? How do you know your persistance is becoming annoying? I've slowly got over approach anxiety, just started using kino (amazing how that **** works), already know how to be fun and ****y. I think my problem right now is that I deal with paranoia and always wonder if I'm becoming annoying. I need to get the persistent part down. Any help?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crazy Asian

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the higher ur social status is, the more you can get away with
 

dannowillbookem

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There is no cookie-cutter timeline for pursuing girls. Some girls have such strong interest I call them in two days. Some seemed more absorbed in other things, so I'd drop them a text in five or six days.

Anything past that, it needs to be mutual. Are you constantly the one making the calls? Are these calls being returned when you hit the voicemail? If no, you've got to cool it man. Let her come to you, because just like kino, you'll be surprised how well that works.

Women respect a man of high value.
 
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