"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Period and chill
- Thread starter nobdon
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I went there for chill but I took with me some weapons. I was determined to check if she was bull****jng me.
So, at one point as we were making out I started checking the underwear for period pads (very discreet and gentle with fingers ). She was wearing one. But then I thought that it might be to cover up her story.
As we continue I let her know that I brought a ****ring with me. She says too bad we cannot use it. I say, yes too bad but there might other ways to use it . I take it out and give it to her to feel it and play with it. I never stopped for a minute touching and licking her.
As we continue I let her know that I also brought oil massage scented candle and eatable full taste lubricant. I gave her to taste and smell. She was on fire. I kiss her again and tell her I do not mind. That was it. It was right and there on the couch no towels no nothing.
The following morning we used all toys and oils.
PS: she was indeed on her period
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
It made a change to have a valid reason to avoid having sex with her. So I actively welcomed her
periods so that for a change I could excuse myself without feeling guilty for not having any urges
to pursue her (or anyone else for that matter) sexually. For the record, she would have been totally
up for period sex. But for me, her period mainly represented a timespan where I never had to
struggle to make up reasons/excuses why I didn't particularly want to partake in intercourse.
Yet it could also be a huge turn off for a woman. “I told him Im on my period and he doesn’t even care. How desperate is this guy to get some?”
Wouldn‘t it be sexier if the guy said “ok, I’ll grab some chocolate and stream Sex and the City for you.” rather than “the sight of blood gushing from you doesn’t bother me, let’s do it!!”
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The good ones: they will make you *** anyway, without your explicit request
The bad ones: allways eager to find an excuse why they cant make you ***
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.