"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Perhaps we need a Council of Elders

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I would like to have an assembled council of knowledgeable elders that we could turn to for seasoned advice.

I wanna see guys on the council with names like

Old Jaun, AJuanTimeAgo, and BORNIN1920Juan.

Any Ideas for recruiting some old timers? :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I can see it now the DJ Jedi Council...

Obi Wan Tomassi, Dongfu Skywalker and Str8up Windu.
 
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30 is not old! The only ones that should be in the club is those who were born 1964 or or earlier - before the hor matrix was introduced!! The Baby Boomers - hell we created the hor matrix!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KontrollerX said:
I can see it now the DJ Jedi Council...

Obi Wan Tomassi, Dongfu Skywalker and Str8up Windu.
Dont forget about Jaun Solo, Luke VaginaWalker, and Darth Weener. :D
 

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Last Man Standing said:
30 is not old! The only ones that should be in the club is those who were born 1964 or or earlier - before the hor matrix was introduced!! The Baby Boomers - hell we created the hor matrix!!
Yes, Last Juan Standing, I agree, us 30 yr olds are still Pad Juans. At 20,000 posts, you should elevated to Vagina Jedi :D
 

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There is a council, but to go to them, you have to go thru their posts. You can usually find what you need without a direct question to them. The most responsive is Fingers, as long as it is a question in a post he started.

The one that sometimes comes to you is Tesuquered. He was like god to me when he'd appear in my post questions.

Just look up and read the "wisdoms" of Pook, Fingers, and Tesuquered (his responses to ppl). There you have it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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iqqi said:
There is a council, but to go to them, you have to go thru their posts. You can usually find what you need without a direct question to them. The most responsive is Fingers, as long as it is a question in a post he started.

The one that sometimes comes to you is Tesuquered. He was like god to me when he'd appear in my post questions.

Just look up and read the "wisdoms" of Pook, Fingers, and Tesuquered (his responses to ppl). There you have it.
Oh, I see. A secret council lurking in shadows, shrouded in mystery, available to only the sincerest seekers. Cool. :up: :cuss: :flowers: :kick: :trouble: :eek: :whistle: :p :D
 

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I received a special message from my master Dong Tzu. In the process of decrypting.
 

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Real juan
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The problems would be, who should we put up there? How would we decide it? I'm sure everyone would have a different opinion after the first 3 or 4 obvious choices. Then another problem would be, the most obvious choices, i.e. Pook.... they don't post anymore.

Yet another issue: Once this so called council was created, the members would be prime targets for trolls and people who just disagree with everything. They'd challenge anything the council says, and constantly bash them.




The whole point is to have a group of people who would be the final word on any issue, right? Don't we have the DJ Bible for that?
 

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Yet another issue: Once this so called council was created, the members would be prime targets for trolls and people who just disagree with everything. They'd challenge anything the council says, and constantly bash them.
How about we have a rule that you're only allowed to speak while holding the conch shell?
 

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Are you guys sitting around making ‘Star Wars’ Jokes? Yea… yea you are.:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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