Yeah, This whole subject really pi$$es me off. So don't even get me started... Oh, too late.
I was doing a tree cutting job once when a couple of a$$holes asked me why I was single and had never been married at 27 years old. They asked if I was gay or something.
At the time, I was still pretty AFC, shy, and had very little experience with women.
But, even with all of that, I thought of my brother's recent divorce and many friends who were unhappily married (and probably getting no more sex than I was).
This led me on a rant that nearly got me in a fight with one of the guys. I asked how many of them were never divorced. How fun their divorce was. If they were better off financially afterwards. I asked how many were happily married. How many had wives who didn't turn into cows, and still liked sex. I went on and on, thinking of all of the complaints my married friends always made.
Hell, by the time I was done, even I didn't want to get married. And I was still a hopeless, romantic AFC, who hadn't been badly burnt yet.
With the exception of the guy who wanted to fight, there was utter silence. After it sunk into his thick skull, even he shut up. Last I heard, two of those guys have gotten divorced since then.
Knowing all of that, I do know that there are some people out there who are happily married. Not all marriages are a match made in hell. That's the reason I spend so much time on this site. NOT just to become a better man and a Don Juan who never hands his balls over to any chick. BUT, also so I can weed out the few good women from all the countless biatches, psychos, fatty-Oprah wannabees, feminists, naggers, gold-diggers, actresses, *****s, and let's see did I leave anyone out? (You're asking yourself, "did he leave anyone in?")
Seriously this site is pure gold. For those of us who have found it, we need to realize how lucky we are. I've tried to get some AFC friends to check it out, but they won't. Like Doc Love says, "some guys just can't be fixed." And that's too damn bad, because as long as that trend continues, so will unhappy marriages and man-bashing.