Performance Anxiety

[Rebound Material]

Hey guys, long time no see. Im gonna make this as brief as possible so...Yea, when its that time to actually fcuk my girl my d!ck goes shy. Its really frustrating because almost every other time we fool around im normally up and super hard, but when it comes time to do the deed my d!ck just refuses to get up or it takes a really long time for it to get there...I thought I might have had erectile dysfunction but I have no problem getting up every time im getting oral/HJ and whatever. You guys have any tips to get over performance anxiety?

 

[Wiesman44]

YES ! first reply ! Ok, here goes. Are you ready ?

Try getting naked with another guy. If your penis gets hard no problem, then you know what the problem is.

 

[Rebound Material]

YES ! first reply ! Ok, here goes. Are you ready ?

Try getting naked with another guy. If your penis gets hard no problem, then you know what the problem is.

jesus fcuking christ -_-....


anyone else care to be helpful? Btw, i should also mention that im a smoker and have not disregarded that it may be a factor. Ive cut down alot but yea...

 

[DJDamage]

A friend of mine has told me he had those anxiety performance problems so what he did was he went to his doctor and he prescribed Cialis for him and after using it a couple of times his problem was solved.

 

[Spectre]

Viva Viagra!!!

 

[Leporello]

Kegels help

so does making sex more natural. That ripping-clothes-off-tumbling-onto-bed stuff is (mostly) for the movies. Much better to get naked together for an appreciable amount of foreplay time before getting down to it.

 

[Drum&Bass]

no worries, for the last 2 months I had the EXACT same problems you were having and I was freaking out WAAYYYY more than you were. I tried to pinpoint what the issue was and I tried a few different things.

I went to bed early like 10:30 - 11pm and I ate more carbs including more fruits and veggies. When I messed around with my girl we always did it after spending a whole day doing out door training or working out and I was usually tired, so i started doing all the sex stuff before any training, I stopped worrying about sex when I wasn't horny and focused on other priorities.

To make a long story short I'm back to my normal stud self' and I can go anytime I want or anytime a girl needs me.

It's just one of those things, that could range from low testosterone, getting comfortable, level of tiredness, over training etc...either way you don't have erectile dysfunction and you don't need any pills its just a phase I'm sure most guys go through or will go through, but it will pass and you'll be back to hammering your girl like before.

 

[Rebound Material]

For those of you with useful advice, Thank you(even the viagra guy).

Anyways, I should have also mentioned that I lost my virginity to this girl not too long ago. We've had sex about 4 times total but it wasnt so great. During the times I would actually get hard and am actually fvcking her, I would go soft in a few minutes of pumping and dont actually finish. I figured my problem was that Im a noobie to sex and I just have to get used to it because lately ive been getting up at a faster rate than before.