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Performance Anxiety. How to beat it?
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
gravityeyelids
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i've had this problem for like ever. I feel like a lot of it was my catholic upbringing and feelings of guilt about having sex. You have to realize that it is not a physical thing. It's completely mental. I tried numerous things: supplements like gingko biloba, maca, tribulus, caffiene, ginger, stopping masturbating, stopping porn, working out, changing my diet, and on and on. These things will all increase your libido, but not NECESSARILY cure your PA. however, i do find that when i'm very horny it's not as much of a problemt because i have more confidence. Especially the working out part. If you dont already weight train (cardio, yoga is great too), you need to. I would recommend start working out, eat a lot of garlic and good fats, and maybe take a libido supplement. Even if it's just placebo, placebo can be very effective.
I'm in a LTR right now, and it's not as much of a problem, but it's something that is always there and irritates me. The biggest thing to do is relax and not be outcome dependent. Don't put any pressure on yourself to perform, and if your member does go down, tell the girl what's up and act like it's not a big deal. Tell her it happens sometimes, BECAUSE IT DOES. For me it usually happens during foreplay before it even enters her (condoms make things worse too). If i'm decently horny, theres never a problem once it's in and we're already having sex. You can always blame it on alcohol or stress or whatever if it's a new girl if that helps you...but if it's a recurring chick and it happens more than once, you should just be honest with her. While it's not exactly an attractive thing, many girls will be understanding of it.
I actually went to my doctor and got a box of cialis because it was bugging me so bad. Honestly, just having the pill there IN CASE is usually enough to make you not worry about it. (NO i'm not a viagra spammer, this is honest to God my experience). And a worry like this can impair your ability to flirt and escalate if you're too worried about how you might perform if you get this girl home with you....
I find that it's something that carries momentum: if you have a bunch of bad experiences in a row, then it starts to get you down. But if you bang like a stud a couple times in a row, it's much less likely to happen.
PM me if you have any questions...i'm in a similar boat
I'm in a LTR right now, and it's not as much of a problem, but it's something that is always there and irritates me. The biggest thing to do is relax and not be outcome dependent. Don't put any pressure on yourself to perform, and if your member does go down, tell the girl what's up and act like it's not a big deal. Tell her it happens sometimes, BECAUSE IT DOES. For me it usually happens during foreplay before it even enters her (condoms make things worse too). If i'm decently horny, theres never a problem once it's in and we're already having sex. You can always blame it on alcohol or stress or whatever if it's a new girl if that helps you...but if it's a recurring chick and it happens more than once, you should just be honest with her. While it's not exactly an attractive thing, many girls will be understanding of it.
I actually went to my doctor and got a box of cialis because it was bugging me so bad. Honestly, just having the pill there IN CASE is usually enough to make you not worry about it. (NO i'm not a viagra spammer, this is honest to God my experience). And a worry like this can impair your ability to flirt and escalate if you're too worried about how you might perform if you get this girl home with you....
I find that it's something that carries momentum: if you have a bunch of bad experiences in a row, then it starts to get you down. But if you bang like a stud a couple times in a row, it's much less likely to happen.
PM me if you have any questions...i'm in a similar boat
Jair213
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I thought I had pa too but it wasnT. I could get a hard just By looking at a girls Picture wearing a bikini. So i knew my problem wasnt getting hard.
I started focusing more on a girls body etc that kept me turned on enough to be able to keep a hard on and Not go soft. Its just a mental thing ..focus, relax, and enjoy her body and Woody down there should be Fine.. dont let any other negative thoughts linger its like ur mind and penis are connected and work as one..
I started focusing more on a girls body etc that kept me turned on enough to be able to keep a hard on and Not go soft. Its just a mental thing ..focus, relax, and enjoy her body and Woody down there should be Fine.. dont let any other negative thoughts linger its like ur mind and penis are connected and work as one..
Jair213
Master Don Juan
I thought I had pa too but it wasnt. I could get a hard on just By looking at a girls Picture wearing a bikini. So i knew my problem wasnt getting hard.
I started focusing more on a girls body etc that kept me turned on enough to be able to keep a hard on and Not go soft. Its just a mental thing ..focus, relax, and enjoy her body and Woody down there should be Fine.. dont let any other negative thoughts linger its like ur mind and penis are connected and work as one..
I started focusing more on a girls body etc that kept me turned on enough to be able to keep a hard on and Not go soft. Its just a mental thing ..focus, relax, and enjoy her body and Woody down there should be Fine.. dont let any other negative thoughts linger its like ur mind and penis are connected and work as one..
First of all I'd make sure you can give her a good time before you even stick it in. Give her a few orgasms before that and she'll be so satisfied that she won't be too concerned that you're having issues, thus taking the pressure off you and perhaps eliminating the performance anxiety entirely. The standard advice of relaxing, staying in the moment, and shutting down negative thoughts could help as well.
Bible_Belt
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Take viagra about 1 hour before you go on a date with her, 100 mg should do it, and drink it with hot tea. You don't have to do it every time, after several times it will fix your willy problems. As an added bonus your eyes will tell her you want to ****. 
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What works for me is focus 100% completely and totally on pleasing the girl. Not only will this take my mind of my limp**** and make me less anxious, it will arouse me even more if I see she's getting off.
This sometimes happens when I'm with a really hot girl im banging for the first time or the night after heavy drinking (yes it works pretty well for whiskey****).
I remember growing up the first 2/3 times I tried to have sex with a girl (they were all different, didn't start with a GF) I couldn't get hard enough to put it in because I was so damn nervous. The the 4th time I just said fvck this sh1t and started to eat her out in the hopes so at least she would get off and whalaaaa hard as a rock
This sometimes happens when I'm with a really hot girl im banging for the first time or the night after heavy drinking (yes it works pretty well for whiskey****).
I remember growing up the first 2/3 times I tried to have sex with a girl (they were all different, didn't start with a GF) I couldn't get hard enough to put it in because I was so damn nervous. The the 4th time I just said fvck this sh1t and started to eat her out in the hopes so at least she would get off and whalaaaa hard as a rock
Renegade357
Master Don Juan
Yep, been there. You gotta stop choking the chicken for 2-3 few days before you see her. Then you'll be ready to destroy. Also go slow and add some foreplay in there. Booze can help you relax a little too. Not too much though.