ArtVandelay
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There's a similar thread about HB10's going on, but I'm making a different point.
Some of you may remember a thread I posted about a month ago about wanting to sleep with a stripper so badly that I was willing to pay her. I followed up last week by saying that I haven't been to the strip club since and don't even remember what she looks like.
Looking back on it, I wasn't giving myself enough credit. I was admittedly drooling over her when I saw her at the bar talking to some old AFC. I went over, and when I talked to her, it was actually a let-down. Hearing her repeat the same questions, "So you're here on a Tuesday night with you're friends, why? You guys just decided it would be cool to go to a strip club?" Seeing her naked was also a let-down. She looked too perfect, her head down to her feet. Couldn't find a flaw on her. At the time, I was so caught up in seeing a so-called "HB10" and low in self-esteem that I thought, "The only way I'll ever have sex with an above average looking girl is to pay for it." Obviously, I came to my senses and realized that I don't have to pay to have sex with an above average looking woman, but more importantly, I realized, women, just like anything else in life, aren't meant to look perfect. This girl was like the Yankees: sound good on paper with so many superstars on their team, but it doesn't equal team chemistry and a winning formula.
I see guys posting pictures of models and porn stars on here and can't help but think, "Would you actually want to go out with such a woman?" I'm not saying looks don't matter, I'm saying that I'd rather take the 8 with a more unique look (Yes, another nod to Winona Ryder) and personality than the perfect, robotic girl.
Some of you may remember a thread I posted about a month ago about wanting to sleep with a stripper so badly that I was willing to pay her. I followed up last week by saying that I haven't been to the strip club since and don't even remember what she looks like.
Looking back on it, I wasn't giving myself enough credit. I was admittedly drooling over her when I saw her at the bar talking to some old AFC. I went over, and when I talked to her, it was actually a let-down. Hearing her repeat the same questions, "So you're here on a Tuesday night with you're friends, why? You guys just decided it would be cool to go to a strip club?" Seeing her naked was also a let-down. She looked too perfect, her head down to her feet. Couldn't find a flaw on her. At the time, I was so caught up in seeing a so-called "HB10" and low in self-esteem that I thought, "The only way I'll ever have sex with an above average looking girl is to pay for it." Obviously, I came to my senses and realized that I don't have to pay to have sex with an above average looking woman, but more importantly, I realized, women, just like anything else in life, aren't meant to look perfect. This girl was like the Yankees: sound good on paper with so many superstars on their team, but it doesn't equal team chemistry and a winning formula.
I see guys posting pictures of models and porn stars on here and can't help but think, "Would you actually want to go out with such a woman?" I'm not saying looks don't matter, I'm saying that I'd rather take the 8 with a more unique look (Yes, another nod to Winona Ryder) and personality than the perfect, robotic girl.