"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Perfect way to get rid of competition or ****blockers?

Bigtrucker2008

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As, the title of this thread suggests, I am looking for good ways to get rid of competition or ****blockers.

For example, let's say you are talking to a chick. She apparently likes you, and you are about to get the number and slide out. But all of a sudden, someone comes up and interrupts the conversation purposely in order to make you two stop talking. What would be the perfect way to shake this person???

That was just an example, but I think you get it.......
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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acknowledge them and porceed with the "I gotta get back 2 my friends, lemme get your #" routine.

Other good advice........you shoulda utilzed a wingman to c-block for you PRIOR TO engaging the woman.

You also could have isolated the female out of visual sight prior to him arriving or extrapolated the number quicker and do as you said slid out.

Competition is fierce at times wether in a club, inline or even online and others are ready to swoop in the minute they see an opening. I think theres even a swoop approach to steal women away from their men.

If you got solid game and engage others, no competion/c-blocker will affect your outcome. The minute you re-direct your attention away from your target and become focused on outside influences you lose!!!!

Acknowledge them, introduce yourself, then back on your primary objective.
Speed seduction requires skills set in fast mode, over staying your lock point stands the risk of losing your appeal. For all they know you are just a friendly guy getting her number for a recipe for pasta.

The worst thing you can do is over-react and become hostile!!!
 

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A similar thing to this happened to me, but the person who "swooped in", was a female who liked me (I would rate her a 6 or 7, not my type.). It wasn't a guy who had his eyes on the chick. Rather, it was a jealous girl who had her eyes on me.
 

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PU artist always got room for one more.......fans should be welcomed. Not your type is a great wingman and social proof........make her work for you.

While she is getting your drinks, you sarge on women, treat her like a safety net, jealousy/competition rules in your favor dude!!!
 
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