"Perfect situation"

[jeffthechef]

Here it is plain and simple..

I sent an email to a girl asking for her number because school's over and that was the only way to contact her.
We've talked before and i am 95% sure she was interested. The only thing is..i took too long overanalyzing everything and by the time i decided to ask her out somewhere..another guy asked her out.
Assumming she gives me her number, i will then talk to her and then what?

Should i ask her if she wants to hang out regardless of her having a bf..after talking to her for a week or so?
Should i keep communication with her at a minimum until she's single?

Also, is popularity a major factor? I was a relatively quiet guy my freshman and sophomore years but i am going to try and be more social this year. When i hear about her hanging out with all these popular people i get slightly discouraged. The thing is..i know nothing bad will happen if she says no. i am pretty sure she wouldn't tell anyone but her best friend because no one else would care.

Thanks =)

 

[SinJester]

She has a boyfriend? Keep in contact with her if you want but find someone else.

 

[darkme_legendary]

Continue as planned
The guy that asked her out is her problem not yours. I think you are more interested in her not in the other distractions.