"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Perfect Situation

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I met my girlfriend at my job, my girlfriend is on leave of absence until September.

And new girl is hired who flat out likes me and is flirting and hitting on me non stop. New girl is hot too.

I've told they new girl that I have a gf, she said pffff who cares and still continues to hit on me.

I've told my gf about this.

So how can I use this situation to create more attraction from my gf? She is already jealous.

Note, these girls will be working together soon!:D
Yes i have brought popcorn to watch the show!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sisterhood is Powerful - a woman's "competition" today is her partner in crime tomorrow - tread carefully, Grasshopper...
 

inzone50

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LovelyLady said:
Sisterhood is Powerful - a woman's "competition" today is her partner in crime tomorrow - tread carefully, Grasshopper...
what are you trying to say?
 

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In the most gentlest of ways... don't be stupid. ;) You have nothing to gain by making her jealous. Secure and trust you, yes - we walk through fire for you then. Jealous and like we can't trust you - where's the door?

Eventually- these women will talk - and when they do, they won't waste time filtering out all the B.S. So, you are best to leave your games on the sports field, IMHO Course, I am woman - maybe some of the men here will encourage you to play with her feelings... I guess it will just depend onwhat you really want out of your relationship with her, really.
 

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Dude don't try for jealousy.

Try convincing your girl into a 3-way. :rock:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No, I don't want to sleep with the new one. I like my gf. I've told my gf about her and i told the new girl about my gf.

I'm just using the new girl to make my gf get at me harder. if she see other women trying to get me she will want me more and do more things to impress me.
 

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you are a better man than me..I would have already fvcked the new girl and worried about the consequences in september :rockon:
 

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DJStrawberry said:
you are a better man than me..I would have already fvcked the new girl and worried about the consequences in september :rockon:
hahaha, i only want my gf!
 
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