"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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perfect match..but total slut

naes420

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ive had many many girls over the past few years...getting girls is no problem...there has always been this one that we have been off and on been really close friends to really into each other sexually....to even hating each other so much that all we do is insult each other, in actual hate for each other too lol....for about 4 years now actualy

she is kind of a slut...
scores a 9 on the scale for sure, gorgeous girl, im probably about a 8 or 7, the thing is ive been with so many girls and what ive noticed is that she has the perfect personality for me...we mix so damn well its not even funny..ive never had a girlfriend where we are so alike on so many levels....
anyways, the only problem is she has cheated on her boyfriends before, she is kind of a slut...thats good for me because i like more sexually experienced girls (i hate sex with virgins)...but she has cheated on her exs before...which i dont like,

well we recently just got over this bitter hate for each other...and we are getting closer now....i know i can pretty much have her any time i want.....
we've been in that bitter hate state for about 6 months until now so i didnt really get to see how she changed..but she claims she stopped cheating and sleeping around....its true, but they might do it any time anyways..


lets look at this now:
GOOD:
best personality mesh ive ever had..i know this for a fact
sexually experienced girl means great sex
known each other for along time and been through alot means longer lasting relationship

BAD:
im settling down now and im looking for a long term relationship as of now, and her past could catch up to her





ideas?

we are both 18 btw
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For you to ponder this tells me that your head is fvcked! To call her a slvt and say you are a perfect match says what about you? Fix your head! You have been given the answer - no need to read further!!
 
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The Sperminator said:
Shes 18 so shes probably going to be a slut for at least 3 more years.
Once a hor she always will be perceived as a hor!!
 

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I sense oneitis kicking in
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i dont remember perfect matches as lasting long.

either way, you know what youre getting. might as well prepare for the possibilities.
 

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Never make the mistake of treating a good girl like a slut, or a slut like a good girl. :nono:

Or, in the words of Dr. Dre 10 years ago
Can't make a ho a housewife
 
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