Perfect example of why guys are imtimidated by women

[Plain & Simple]

Last night, like around, 7:30 pm i went by i near by publix with 2 of my friends to get us some sandwiches, we were hungry.

So as i pull in the parking lot i notice this hooot female, walking in the parking lot, she didnt notice me while i was parking, so i park, we get out, and as we are walking to the publix entrance i look back and she was right there right behind me, we made eye contact i lick my lips at her she smiles, so i look forward again to let my friends know that i was gonna handle that.

So i approach her, by the time i was like 10 feet behind her so i polite said "excuse me miss" she turns around but still walking, i say " Can i speak with you for a minute" since she looked like she was in a rush she says " i gotta go back to work my break's been over" i say " whats your name" she replies wit her name but still walking " so i say " So can i have 1 minute of your break time" She replies i cant i really gotta go back to work.

So there i just ended by saying "ok no problem"

So basicly i didnt have a chance to crack a proper convo with her since she didnt stop and kept walking, although she was interested and i believe that she would had probably talked to me if it wasn cause "her break had been over"

All the go ahead signs, i go ahead, but i guess this was really a bad time.

It felt good though cause she was really hot, and non of my friends dared to approach her, they were all scare.

How would yall had handaled tihs situation ?

She was in a rush there was nothing i could do, i cant hold her down...

 

[Zone20]

I think she turned you down bro.

 

[Oxide]

I would ask her where she works and then stop by and continue the convo.

 

[Plain & Simple]

hmmm interesting , well i know it was the nail shop cause thats where she was heading, thats the only shop in the direction that she was walking, but i cant go in the shop where she works at and just kick game at her at her job where she just got back from break late?...

 

[Oxide]

Sure you can.

 

[kyphan]

If those were your words, you seemed a little desperate to her. Nothing funny, nothing interesting, just a little bit of begging. She shot you down. NEXT!

 

[Aaron B]

begging for some of her time?

you want her begging for your time

 

[Ripper]

Last night, like around, 7:30 pm i went by i near by publix with 2 of my friends to get us some sandwiches, we were hungry.

So as i pull in the parking lot i notice this hooot female, walking in the parking lot, she didnt notice me while i was parking, so i park, we get out, and as we are walking to the publix entrance i look back and she was right there right behind me, we made eye contact i lick my lips at her she smiles, so i look forward again to let my friends know that i was gonna handle that.

So i approach her, by the time i was like 10 feet behind her so i polite said "excuse me miss" she turns around but still walking, i say " Can i speak with you for a minute" since she looked like she was in a rush she says " i gotta go back to work my break's been over" i say " whats your name" she replies wit her name but still walking " so i say " So can i have 1 minute of your break time" She replies i cant i really gotta go back to work.

So there i just ended by saying "ok no problem"

So basicly i didnt have a chance to crack a proper convo with her since she didnt stop and kept walking, although she was interested and i believe that she would had probably talked to me if it wasn cause "her break had been over"

All the go ahead signs, i go ahead, but i guess this was really a bad time.

It felt good though cause she was really hot, and non of my friends dared to approach her, they were all scare.

How would yall had handaled tihs situation ?

She was in a rush there was nothing i could do, i cant hold her down...

Explain why this story illustrates why guys are intimidated by women?

 

[Plain & Simple]

^^basicly cause of the response that they get when you are not even being disrespectful.

But as i said, i else would yall had stoped? i mean you have to say something so the first thing that came to my mind was "excuse me ms" thats how i stop almost all females that i wanna talk to, then once they stop you do all the ****y funny and whatnot, during the convo.

Give me some examples of how yall would approach this situation for a number close, im just trynna improve for next time thats all

 

[Phyzzle]

Give me some examples of how yall would approach this situation for a number close, im just trynna improve for next time thats all

Kudos on approaching, but a lot of guys on here say that approaching a walking person outside, on a sidewalk or parking lot, is a waste of time.

And don't say, "can I speak to you." You're already speaking, so . . . uh . . . what's the point? Just talk. Keep walking.

Ask where something is. If you get a big smile, or a real friendly vibe right away, then start to ask about her.

I've done only that successfully once, because I don't even try to close unless she makes it real obvious she's sparked. And I wasn't like, "excuse me can I ask you a question are you single can I have your #?" No, dude, start a conversation.

 

[Boschy]

Yes, a tough approach subject. Take what you learned from it and move on. Next time you will be a touch smoother. Like someone else said, in that situation you need a killer line (or action) to get her attention. You approached (kudos) but had no game plan. I try to see it like chess. You need to know what your moves are a few steps ahead always.

But don't worry....this is hard stuff to master. That's why we're here and not having orgies every night.

 

[Jay Jay]

Kudos on approaching, but a lot of guys on here say that approaching a walking person outside, on a sidewalk or parking lot, is a waste of time.

Yesterday I was walking along and a girl on a bike rode past. She wasn't going fast. I said "Hey, I gotta get myself a pair of those shoes." (they were pretty cool).

She stopped and went "what?"

"I gotta get some of those shoes."

"Oh." She said and rode off. Then stopped and let me catch up. "They are great summer shoes, they stay nice and cool."

The point of this little story is to say that moving targets are not impossible. Although they are more difficult. If you like what you see why not give it a shot? It just depends on the girl.

Plain and Simple:

Just keep practicing. You'll get better. Sure its intimidating but you did survive to fight another day. Its a numbers game, some will stop, some won't. The only thing you can do is make an effort and learn when it doesn't work out.

JJ

 

[Kev07]

look at it this way, if a hot girl came up to you while your break was over and asked to talk, would you really give a sh1t if your break was over?

probably not, you would at least have her walk with you.

the girl turned you down, plain and simple.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Plain, she rejected you but we really don't know the true reason - it has nothing to do with time - we know that!!

But you did your manly duty and was unafraid of the task, which is what matters!!

 

[Plain & Simple]

Ok thanx for the advice yall.

Me really im not the type thats scare of approaching, **** the hotter the girl the more i wanna approach her. its just the situation and obstacles that you encounter, like in this one she was walking.

 

[sux2bu]

Hate to say it but it sounds like you got turned down. If she's hot, she most likely has at least 5 to 10 ankle bitters such as yourself hitting on her throughout the day. I bet she started walking faster as you got more presistent, didn't she? If she was interested, she would have stopped and made time for you. Did you enjoy talking to her backside? :kick:

Hot women are very selective and hold out for the hottest guy they can find. Sorry, but that's the cruelty of nature.

 

[Lust]

Last night, like around, 7:30 pm i went by i near by publix with 2 of my friends to get us some sandwiches, we were hungry.

So as i pull in the parking lot i notice this hooot female, walking in the parking lot, she didnt notice me while i was parking, so i park, we get out, and as we are walking to the publix entrance i look back and she was right there right behind me, we made eye contact i lick my lips at her she smiles, so i look forward again to let my friends know that i was gonna handle that.

So i approach her, by the time i was like 10 feet behind her so i polite said "excuse me miss" she turns around but still walking, i say " Can i speak with you for a minute" since she looked like she was in a rush she says " i gotta go back to work my break's been over" i say " whats your name" she replies wit her name but still walking " so i say " So can i have 1 minute of your break time" She replies i cant i really gotta go back to work.

So there i just ended by saying "ok no problem"

So basicly i didnt have a chance to crack a proper convo with her since she didnt stop and kept walking, although she was interested and i believe that she would had probably talked to me if it wasn cause "her break had been over"

All the go ahead signs, i go ahead, but i guess this was really a bad time.

It felt good though cause she was really hot, and non of my friends dared to approach her, they were all scare.

How would yall had handaled tihs situation ?

She was in a rush there was nothing i could do, i cant hold her down...

Me: Hahaha, you're such a bad liar, oh well, you had your chance" Smile and walk off.

 

[LA_Chico]

^^basicly cause of the response that they get when you are not even being disrespectful.

But as i said, i else would yall had stoped? i mean you have to say something so the first thing that came to my mind was "excuse me ms" thats how i stop almost all females that i wanna talk to, then once they stop you do all the ****y funny and whatnot, during the convo.

Give me some examples of how yall would approach this situation for a number close, im just trynna improve for next time thats all

So you said "Excuse me Miss", well that seems to work if you are Chris Brown bro

 

[Plain & Simple]

Me: Hahaha, you're such a bad liar, oh well, you had your chance" Smile and walk off.

What?

Homie i got way better things to do than to jump on a keyboard and start typing a whole buch of lies about approaching a woman? im telling yall exacly what happened, i could of easily said that i got the number and fuked her the same night blah blah, but thats not me, im telling exacly what went down so i can improve next time.

I can see that u are the type that just watches fine asses walking in front of your face scare to death to approach them instead just saves that pictuer and masturbates to it at home.

 

[abcd_z]

Okay, you got turned down on the approach. Let's take a look at why this happened, shall we?

She is, in your own words, hot. So she probably gets approached like this fairly often. And that means she's probably used to blowing off lovable losers like you. No offense. This is also the dynamic that produces a bítch shield at clubs, but that's another discussion.

Anyhow, there are two ways you can typically open. Direct or indirect. Direct is along the lines of "I like you, I'd like to get to know you better." Doesn't hide your intentions whatsoever. Indirect, on the other hand, is designed to be a non-aggressive way of starting a conversation with her. But there's a catch: it has to be interesting. Your chances are drastically lowered if you try opening with something she's heard a hundred times before, or really anything that's boring. Like, oh say, "Can I have a moment of your time?" Again, no offense.

The other problem is if you ask for a moment of her time to talk, then she's the one making the decision. Which immediately A) puts you in a position of lower value, and B) forces her to make a decision about if she wants to take time out of her schedule to talk to you. Most of the time, her response is going to be "no".

Personally, I prefer a canned indirect opener (usually opinion-, though there's some other types I've been experimenting with), then segue immediately into field-tested attraction-building material.

But hey, it's good that you approached. Now you just need to learn from the mistakes you made and not make them again.