I was watching TV yesterday and saw this show called "taxi cap confessions" on HBO. If you haven't seeing this show watch it just to see how to make somebody open up (maybe a little too much). This is what basically happens, somebody gets in the taxi and the driver asks how her night went. He then asks open ended questions about what she says using DJ principles and saying things like "aha," "oh no","ok" "What!", "so then what happened",etc. In one minute, for example, he has her talking about the time she had a three some with her best friend and her boyfriend etc. The next, have her crying about her mother having cancer, then make her happy to be a singer. If you want to see principles in action watch this. The driver can easily bang this chicks if he wanted to.