"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Perfect country for the AFC = Sweeden

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not bad for men either ...

... what the story doesn't say is that most of the women are hotter than h-ll, and really nice. I met some women from Sweden, and all of them were unreal looking, had great personalities, and could actually carry on a conversation.

My guess is the entitlement issues are greatly less than those of the U.S. ... also met some Norwegians and Danes, let's just say the Scandinavian attitudes of women are much different than those of the U.S.

First off, they don't hate men.
 
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Westcoaster said:
My guess is the entitlement issues are greatly less than those of the U.S. ... also met some Norwegians and Danes, let's just say the Scandinavian attitudes of women are much different than those of the U.S.

First off, they don't hate men.
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...that's just one of the many reasons I married one :)
 
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Yea I wasn't having a go at them or Sweden, there are two types of feminists. Those that want equal rights and those that hate men (like that political party).

Those that simply want equal rights are the best women you can get. However ALL women still want a man to take control when it comes to dating, doing romantic things, chivalry etc
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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