people you go clubbing with and female attention

[onyx]

yeh, ive noticed alot that the people you go clubbing with can help or harm your chances with women. I have more than 1 circle of friends so i never go out with the same people.

Friday night, for 1st time I went out with 5 guys my age, could tell they went to gym, generally looked after themselfs, having a laugh dancing around, we got alot of attention from women, actually eyeing us up, then made out with them during the night.

Saturday night, i got invited out by my uncle (10 years older than me, hes 29) and aload of his mates. I think they see themselfs as past the clubbing scene now. I was bored at times, but damn i got so damn drunk hahah. Got some attention from women, but not my type at all.

Sunday night I went out with some 2 guys who where younger than me (they were year below me at school) and also looked younger than they actually were, quite skinny. They weren't having a laugh until I said something, they always looked arkward. I found it almost impossible to get eye contact with a women for longer that a quick glance. My mates were just stood there looking around.

I found myself, just trying to talk about stupid things, to get them to smile. I even went and found my sister whos same age as them, so they had something to sniff round for 10 minutes, LOL.

But anyways, as anyone else been in the same situation before? I have been out with the third group of guys before, and had a good time, and got female attention, but recently its so boring, they just look around for women but don't have balls to talk to them, unless they are approached.

the 1st set of guys, I don't see that much, college, university etc, living away. My uncle is alot older than me, its a laugh but the places he goes are boring. The 3rd set of guys are like my best mates, but ****s so unbareably boring now.

Any one know how to make **** fun with people like this. I talk to women while they stand in the corner.

 

[Not Quite There]

I know exactly what your saying, thats why you need a decent wingman i guess, something i could do with myself.

I don't really have any mates on my level, not looks, but same attitude/interests/dress sense/taste in music etc...

I've kinda realised this recently, with my 1 group of friends, its totally up to me to do anything regarding women. I do have a laugh when i go out with them, but theyre all kinda shy.

With others, they will jsut get silly drunk and pull anything they can get there hands on.

Other older school friends I sometimes see, just have different attitudes/sense of humour, so its hard to click nowadays.

I do have some good mates who would be good wingmen, but they all live in different cities.

so in conclusion, finding a wingman is almost as hard as the right girl!

 

[Not Quite There]

an example to show as well that its not jsut the looks of your group, but how much fun that you look like your having that can attract attention, i've read this on here countless times.

anyhow, was at this dance club the other week, my mate left me in this 1 room because he wanted to go dance to some other music. anyhow, the music was really good, so i just carried ond dancing on my own, really getting into the msuic, i soon got the attention of this 1 girl who was about a hb7.5, just because i looked like i was having fun, we ended up dancing with each other for ages, turns out she was a 30 year old solicitor, 7 years older than me, but she looked a lot younger!

anyhow, a few other guys a bit older than me and probably with more money came over and tried to get in with her and her friends, i can tell whats going on, but just carry on dancing/having fun, and the girls leave the guys and carry on dancing with me...

 

[onyx]

"I don't really have any mates on my level, not looks, but same attitude/interests/dress sense/taste in music etc..."

yeh i can relate to what you said in your 1st post...especially the bit ive quoted above...


fmy best m8s who r slightly younger than me, who i talked about above are the same..

both are real shy when it comes to women unless they've been approached. One of them as a dress sense like me, but the other one has no idea, he came to where i work the other day (i work in a shopping centre) and asked me to help him pick some new clothes, i picked him some stylish trousers/shirts out, which he wouldnt have even considered unless i said try this out for size

my taste in music isnt necessary different tho, i like hip-hop i like everythin abt it, the whole culture, where most my friends like it, but something they can play in there cars while driving down the road, with it blaring out with the subs turned up full

 

[Not Quite There]

Originally posted by onyx
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my taste in music isnt necessary different tho, i like hip-hop i like everythin abt it, the whole culture, where most my friends like it, but something they can play in there cars while driving down the road, with it blaring out with the subs turned up full

same here, been into hip hop for years, but only really like the classis stuff from mid 90s and uk hip hop.

used to always go to hip hop/dnb clubs, which was a lot of fun, but hard to meet girls, theyre definalty lacking compared to a cheese club anyhow. mind you, at least you don't have to wear a 'uniform' at hip hop clubs.