"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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People with a sense of fashion here?

Which pair do you like most

  • 1

    Votes: 3 42.9%
  • 2

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • 3

    Votes: 2 28.6%

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    7

r0cky

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vice

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I wear Allen Edmonds dress shoes when I go out. They last WAY longer than sneakers, are more stylish, and they are cheaper in the long run, because when the soles wear out, I get them repaired. These shoes are classic and never go out of style, and I can focus my time on other things than looking for a new pair of shoes. That's my personal choice and opinion though.

I like those first shose though, because you can wear them with just about anything, and converses are pretty classic shoes as well, and they're leather. The only thing that sucks is that the leather will outlast the soles.
 

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I chose #2, but all are good choices. Number 2 fits my style most. I don't personally like how I look in Chuck Taylor's but I like them for other people. Classic and add a certain style to whatever you wear.
 

ArcBound

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Well I don't know about the adidas shoe, but generally converse shoes suck (for comfort). This is coming from someone who used to skate a lot, and who walks around a lot. If you do a lot of walking (aka NYC) you will start the feel the ground, your feet will hurt and it will seem like there is nothing in between your shoe and the ground.

If purely as a fashion thing I would get the navy blue shoes, they have a subtle awesomeness to them while the adidas and the vintage are kind of look at me-ish shoes to me.

Also notice that the only white sole sneaker is the 2nd navy one. The other two are offwhite colored sole sneakers. They look slightly different and it is infinitely harder to clean white soles, just a heads up if you get the navy sneakers.

Also very expensive taste in sneakers lol.
 

Desdinova

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I like my biker boots personally. Leather lasts forever.

r0cky said:
PS. Mods, would you consider creating a 'fashion tips' forum?
This is the 'Fashion Tips' forum. It's also the 'Bl0wjob' forum, the 'Suggestions & Feedback' forum, the 'Finance' forum, the 'Humor' forum, the 'Who Smokes Pot' forum, the 'Current Affairs' forum, the 'Getting Cvm Stains Off My Blanket' forum, the 'Favorite Book' forum, etc, etc etc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Speaking of, what's the easiest way to get cym stains off my blanket anyway?
 

r0cky

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PDubb75 said:
Thanks Pdubb. Those were some very good choices too, which gave me more trouble deciding for the one pair. I've decided I'm going to go with choice #3. Thanks for your votes everyone
 
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