She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No, I'm pretty sure they're being racist. You nerd.Strelok said:Sorry mate but that card doesn't work if you don't belong to a minority.![]()
If you are so sure of course they are,racists are everywhere especially under the ground where they are building a secret army to conquer the world,you probably had an encounter with their vanguards.Ice882 said:No, I'm pretty sure they're being racist. You nerd.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What if I attack you on the basis of sexuality and address none of your points?Strelok said:If you are so sure of course they are,racists are everywhere especially under the ground where they are building a secret army to conquer the world,you probably had an encounter with their vanguards.
Anyway nerd is a stupid word,if you really want to insult somebody try to insult their mothers,that's known to anybody who left the kindergarden![]()
I don't know,you tell me.Ice882 said:What if I attack you on the basis of sexuality and address none of your points?
I'm a player kid. I own two businesses.Strelok said:I don't know,you tell me.
Good for you,do you want to brag about something else or you're fine for the day?Ice882 said:I'm a player kid. I own two businesses.
dude where is your sarcasm detector? Literally everything I've said from the very beginning has been sarcasm. I thought you would get it... not be offended :nervous:Strelok said:Good for you,do you want to brag about something else or you're fine for the day?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hard to get sarcasm by only reading and no voice,vodka doesn't help either.Ice882 said:dude where is your sarcasm detector? Literally everything I've said from the very beginning has been sarcasm. I thought you would get it... not be offended :nervous: