"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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People who always post about looks and about race need to be banned

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none of you looks/race obsessed weirdos want to improve, u just wanna throw your statistics like its shyt and make it stick, but nobody on sosuave cares about it, because THIS SITE serves only 1 purpose:

IMPROVING GAME

there is no need to talk about looks, we all know that the better looking u are, the better it is for you, there is NO NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT

and race, u have no control over, so shut up right now about that ****, guys of all races hook up with girls of all races..........PERIOD

this site is about beating women at their own game and leading a life of being a don juan

SHUT YOUR TRAPS YOU AFCS WHO KEEP TALKING ABOUT LOOKS AND RACE

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A lot of people don't like taking responsibility for this area of there life so it's a lot easier to just blame it on looks/race. Race is basically a sub factor of looks and something you obviously can't control, but there other parts of your apperance that you can control and should do your best to bring up. Thats what its all about, controlling the things you can, thats where game comes in, since its 100% in your control, you have just to put in your time.
 
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AFC Savior said:
none of you looks/race obsessed weirdos want to improve, u just wanna throw your statistics like its shyt and make it stick, but nobody on sosuave cares about it, because THIS SITE serves only 1 purpose:

IMPROVING GAME

there is no need to talk about looks, we all know that the better looking u are, the better it is for you, there is NO NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT

and race, u have no control over, so shut up right now about that ****, guys of all races hook up with girls of all races..........PERIOD

this site is about beating women at their own game and leading a life of being a don juan

SHUT YOUR TRAPS YOU AFCS WHO KEEP TALKING ABOUT LOOKS AND RACE

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Agreed, 100%
 
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Isn't this a post about race and looks? You are officially banned!
 
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none of you looks/race obsessed weirdos want to improve, u just wanna throw your statistics like its shyt and make it stick, but nobody on sosuave cares about it, because THIS SITE serves only 1 purpose:

IMPROVING GAME

there is no need to talk about looks, we all know that the better looking u are, the better it is for you, there is NO NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT

and race, u have no control over, so shut up right now about that ****, guys of all races hook up with girls of all races..........PERIOD

this site is about beating women at their own game and leading a life of being a don juan

SHUT YOUR TRAPS YOU AFCS WHO KEEP TALKING ABOUT LOOKS AND RACE

god
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I agree... All the threads do is put people down.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well I think looks threads do have some value because appearance is a lot to do with body language and can be changed for example. But these guys creating race threads are totally full of it and out of line. If you disagree with them they try to paint you as a racist like Sandow was trying to do with me :rolleyes: . If a guy had a legitimate question of how to PU a girl of a different race or whatever that'd be different, but these guys are just being racist. I think it's acceptable to be "sexist" since this is a male forum :D but this isn't a forum for politics, religion and race.
 
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