"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I notice I can be chilling with my familly or going to the local store with my little brother. and People will just be ****ing starring at me. Sometimes I think oh alright look I dont give a **** then other times it really pisses me off. They stair till I look at them back. By the way there not mostly chicks mostly dudes. Yesterday I went out to go eat with my familly. And there were these 4 people sitting at there table and I noticed that like every 15 monutes they would just look at me, so I would look at them and they would look away. wtf.
sometimes I just want to go up to people and start kicking some ass. I was wondering what do you think is up with this? also how should I be acting if I notice people doing this s*it? and does this happen to you guys also? by the way I dress and look decent, so its not like I look like s*it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't worry about it. Guys always do that. They like to stare you down or mad dog you for no reason. You can't kick every guys ass who stares at you so just ignore it. Guys like to feel tough or are just jealous of you for some reason.
 

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Maybe you're ugly as **** and they just can't look away? Or you have a penis on your forehead or something?
 

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You got to post a picture other wise we will never know.

What I don't understand is "Wtf do you care" its one thing to not care what other people think of you but to actually not know what they think of you and getting pissed about it, well its a whole other demenia.

The issue is not with them but with you. If people look at me then I take it as a compliment because it is my belief that they like what they see and they are jealous. You on the other hand has a whole negative spin to it which is due to your own negative perception which you mirror onto others. Find out what bothers you about yourself and then solve it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Sperminator said:
Don't worry about it. Guys always do that. They like to stare you down or mad dog you for no reason. You can't kick every guys ass who stares at you so just ignore it. Guys like to feel tough or are just jealous of you for some reason.

you know what that is probably really true thank you.:)


DJDamage said:
You got to post a picture other wise we will never know.

What I don't understand is "Wtf do you care" its one thing to not care what other people think of you but to actually not know what they think of you and getting pissed about it, well its a whole other demenia.

The issue is not with them but with you. If people look at me then I take it as a compliment because it is my belief that they like what they see and they are jealous. You on the other hand has a whole negative spin to it which is due to your own negative perception which you mirror onto others. Find out what bothers you about yourself and then solve it.
your right man thank you so much, I will try posting a picture.:)
 

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I usually don't notice people staring at me until someone i'm with points it out. I really don't pay attention to the general public, what they do is their buisness. If they start taking photos...well that's a different story.
 

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PRMoon said:
If they start taking photos...well that's a different story.
Well, more than anyone on this board you talk about hanging out with Playboy playmates and celebrities, so I wouldn't be surprised if they start snapping photos of you.

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especially when I'm driving
Maybe you drive a nice car?

Some people stare at me when I'm driving, but hey I can't blame them for being jealous of my ride.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
This happens to me a lot as well, especially when I'm driving or in the locker room at the gym. People are idiots...some guys are just incapable of minding their own business. I also feel a lot of men are closeted homosexuals that just don't try to hide it.

lol I get that alot also. so what I do is try not to pay attention to the people next to me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I hear ya man. People are stupid ****in idiots, especially the old birds in offices etc. They can't see past their ****in noses half the time. Retirement age should be 40, most places. Not many people can do My job. I am confident in that. Not many people's jobs can stand up to the pressure of my job, which makes it so hilarious when anyone thinks I'm wrong. And people getting into your business, ****in looking at my license plate etc etc. callin the cops just because I'm parked outside their place eating lunch in my car innocently. ****, white people can be so ****in stupid, and I'm white.
 

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guys to me are f*cking gay when they keep stareing. stair at a women f*ggot.
 
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~attrACTION~ said:
Well, more than anyone on this board you talk about hanging out with Playboy playmates and celebrities, so I wouldn't be surprised if they start snapping photos of you.


Maybe you drive a nice car?

Some people stare at me when I'm driving, but hey I can't blame them for being jealous of my ride.
What car u drive? Just forget it maybe they`re gay or jealous of something. If someone did more than stare at me... i would break em.
 

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I've caught people (men and women) staring, and my standard response has become, "see anything you like, or are you just browsing?" I'm too laid back to take someone staring at me seriously, so I have some fun with it.
 
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ConantheLibertarian said:
I've caught people (men and women) staring, and my standard response has become, "see anything you like, or are you just browsing?" I'm too laid back to take someone staring at me seriously, so I have some fun with it.
For me there`s a differance, I don`t mind people looking at me. It`s just annoying when old people or guys I don`t know staring down... trying to pick a fight with a total stranger. lol I used to say Do I make u happy in pants... but it made things worse.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
For me there`s a differance, I don`t mind people looking at me. It`s just annoying when old people or guys I don`t know staring down... trying to pick a fight with a total stranger. lol I used to say Do I make u happy in pants... but it made things worse.

oh dude thats so true.
 

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BMW M3 (E46), black with tinted windows, dropped, chrome rims. Looks kind of like this: http://www.stylabilen.se/galleri/vorst.jpg (except I don't have a carbon hood and my rims are nicer)
Dude if I had that, I'd be gettin ***** all the time, because I already got good looks to match or exceed the car. I need a nice house too, then I'd be set for the ***** to come a knockin.
 

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Dude if I had that, I'd be gettin ***** all the time, because I already got good looks to match or exceed the car. I need a nice house too, then I'd be set for the ***** to come a knockin.
You know what though? I'm starting realize it's stupid to define myself by these possessions, and I would rather achieve what you have in your signature: "To be able to bang a chick and not have the lux car & house but better than avg looks attitude confidence and the expert use of your mouth to lead is The ultimate pleasure attribute of a mans man"
 

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I generally only look at people if a. they're a hot chick or b. they're odd looking. Chances are, either people or looking at you because you're ugly or weird-looking, or you're just imagining it because you're an insecure bltch who seems to think that everyone is trying to pick a fight with you.

Oh and "attraction" or whatever you call yourself, I think it's pretty sad that you're pretending to have an M3. First of all, if you did have one, you wouldn't be online right now, you'd be either working to pay for it or driving it. Second, I guarantee no one has a car like that and doesn't have a fvcking picture of it. "It looks sort of like this." Are you sure it's not this pimpmobile?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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