People say, "it's how you make her feel." *What should I be trying to make her feel?

[[R]eality]

I realize words are tools and when I talk to a woman, I can say different things, and for different results. What attracts a woman, what makes her fall in love, what makes her think I'm a great catch that she wants to be with?

Don't tell me about all the techniques and acronyms; cars have manuals, women don't need them. Just the basic idea behind this. What should I be aiming to make her feel, until she is attracted?

Should I give her positive feelings or negative ones? A multiplicity of feelings or something specific?

 

[SharinganUser]

What should I be aiming to make her feel, until she is [bold]attracted?[/bold]

You answered your own question.

 

[Kings_royalty]

What should I be aiming to make her feel

attraction

 

[[R]eality]

Are you people STUPID or you just miss the point? Someone SMART answer me. Desdinova. DonJuanForever. Skip. Rollo. C'mon!

 

[Ace_McGregor]

Read the "Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. It will answer your question.

 

[OMGWTF]

Usually what I do is just rant on about how awesome I am while picking out things I've noticed about them that attract me. My method is one I learned from a friend, through a great deal of time and tutorage. My suggestion is that you do the same, like it says in the literature.

 

[librito]

dont be predictable like all of the other guys... like another poster already told you.... go read "the artfo seduction" by mr green.

do not, and I repeat, do not be predictable like everybody else is.

 

[Distant Light]

Are you people STUPID or you just miss the point? Someone SMART answer me. Desdinova. DonJuanForever. Skip. Rollo. C'mon!

lol

Anyway behind all of the techniques and stuff is you want to convey your personality, the traits women get attracted to are: (There are others)
- Being unpredicatable (Personally my favorite)
- Dominant
- Charisma
- Humor
- Having good social skills
- Standing out
- Non judgmental about sex
- Comfortable in you're own skin

Basically you want to get her attracted by conveying you're personality and showing her what your about and how your life is. (This is what they mean by bring her into your world) You want to just be having a fun, cool, relaxed time. At some point you want some qualifying that way you don't have her thinking "Why did he want me?" so you qualify her. It is always better for her to think you liked her because she said she can cook then if you didn't qualify her and she thought you liked her only because of her looks.

 

[[R]eality]

Distant Light, how many women have you slept with?

 

[[R]eality]

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