People in Boston

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don Juan

Aug 10, 2008

Hey people - was out last night around Fanny Hall w/some friends - and for the first time I interrupted some guy talking to some girl and he remarked that I had f-ed up his "set." Then he proceeded to give me some advice on getting the group of girls interested in hanging out later that night.

It made me realize that I would like to have a wingman to bounce ideas and constructive criticism off of.

If you're in Boston, send me a PM, and sometime this summer I'd like to grab some drinks and bounce ideas/criticism, etc.

Cheers

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.